Am i becoming totally COLD!!!!!!!!

[jacky24]

Accepts & Understands that when God takes something away from u, He's got something much better to offer u!

A friend of mine posted this on Facebook as a Status update and i got all affencive... as in WHO are we to decide this??????

Am i wrong??????

 

[natasja32]

Aw hunny i would feel the same as you if i had read something like that. Im sorry you are feeling so upset today. Wish i could make it better for you. Dont let things like that get you down hunny. Thinking of you.

 

[Tasha]

I would of got upset too. What could be better than having all our babies here?

 

[babytots]

hunni i would feel upset if one of my facebook friends wrote that. like tasha said what could be better then having our babies back with us. hope your ok hunni. x

 

[orange-sox]

I would've got upset too, I don't think anyone can truely understand what it's like to lose a child unless they've been through it themselves.

Like Tasha said, nothing in the world could ever be better than holding our babies in our arms and giving them all the love that we have for them.

Take care Jak xxxxx

 

[Jkelmum]

What a thoughtless cow ...I am sorry but people who think they know best yet know f*** ALL really pee me off ....

 

[celine]

Im so sorry sweets

 

[todteach]

I would absolutely loose it too! That is just her/his opinion, and in my opinion: not a carefully thought out statement. Explain why terrible things happen to such innocent people.

 

[NickyT75]

Id be furious too hunni

it really makes me angry when people spout this shit obviously these people have never had something as truly devastating as losing a child happen to them or they wouldnt be saying such thoughtless things xx

 

[CarCam]

I am so sorry you are upset. Some people just don't know how not to say stupid things.

 

[DiddyDons]

im upset at reading that aswell. Hope your ok babe x x x

 

[CurlySue]

If it was a status update it was most likely not directed at you personally. For example, my status today is something along the lines of "Men are all idiots." There are a fair few men on my Facebook. It's my status, and it's not directed at any of them. It's just my status, because today a man at work particularly pissed me off.

Re: your friend's status. Some people do believe that when "God closes a door, he opens a window." God giveth, God taketh away. They don't say these things to be mean, cruel, judgmental. They say these things because it is what they tell themselves in order for life to make more sense. It's their thought. It's their belief.

When my brother died, I hated God. In fact, I'm not even sure I even believe in God any more. I wondered why God would take a ten year old child away from his family. I chose not to believe in the theory that God gives and takes away because he is All Powerful. I chose not to positively believe in God, because it helped me to hate the being, existent or non-existent, that took away my brother.

It gave me something to focus on.

Different people have different ways of dealing with loss or with things which make no sense to them. Some see it as God's will. Some don't see it that way at all. We're all different, and we all cope differently. You might not agree with your friend's idea, but it's their idea after all. Don't let it hurt you unless it's directed at you.

 

[Las78]

I would be really upset to see this too as I don't want a better offer - just my baby, thats all

hope you're ok