am i evil? dumping FOB on his b'day?

[aob1013]

^ I'm sure she is aware of that, if babies aren't planned (which i am not saying the OP's was or wasn't as i don't know) you can't control the what if's.

 

[katekatekate]

But still, why have sex with someone in the first place who is on crack? =/
If you have sex with someone, there is always a possibility of getting knocked up. As we all know.

 

[KrisKitten]

omg kate....no
so THATS how it happened..
...i always wondered.....

 

[katehappy]

argh. now I could compromise with weed.. my OH did meth for a year, but that was way before we ever got together or Id ever met him.. if I ever found out he was doing it again Id dump him flat! Ive got a strict thing about hard drugs.. that includes meth, cocaine, heroin, crack, lsd, ecstasy, thizz, or any kind of narcotic or over-the-counter pill.. no way jose.

 

[katekatekate]

omg kate....no
so THATS how it happened..
...i always wondered.....

 

[baby.moo]

I left my OH on valentines day before.. but now we are together and obviously expecting a baby lol so IDK if you feel so strongly about something then do it..if you get back together he should get over the fact it was on his birthday.. its not your fault hes screwin up

 

[KrisKitten]

hang on, sorry hun im confused...have you already broken up with him and it was his birthday, or are you going to and planning to do it on his bday? xxx

 

[~RedLily~]

hang on, sorry hun im confused...have you already broken up with him and it was his birthday, or are you going to and planning to do it on his bday? xxx

thats what i was wondering too.

 

[katekatekate]

hang on, sorry hun im confused...have you already broken up with him and it was his birthday, or are you going to and planning to do it on his bday? xxx

thats what i was wondering too.

Me too now you've mentioned it.

- Kirsty you look really familliar but I dont know who you look like and it bugs me everytime I see your avatar.

 

[~RedLily~]

lol someone else said that on here a while ago, i guess ive just got one of those faces lol.

 

[Zebra Stars]

hang on, sorry hun im confused...have you already broken up with him and it was his birthday, or are you going to and planning to do it on his bday? xxx

its his birthday today, and WAS really close to dumping him

 

[KrisKitten]

ok....sorry i wasnt being rude was just genuinely confused.
glad its worked out x

 

[Zebra Stars]

ok....sorry i wasnt being rude was just genuinely confused.
glad its worked out x

Thanks for the advice,
hormones are mean things

 

[KrisKitten]

no probs x

 

[lily123]

Glad that you didn't break up with him! xx

 

[Zebra Stars]

Glad that you didn't break up with him! xx

yeah i over reacted (i blame it on the hormones)

 

[leoniebabey]

i was going to reply but seems everythings been covered so glad you didnt break up and i hope it works out for you !
it might be worth having a word with him though so he knows how it made you feel

x

 

[Charlotteee]

Have you told him about the crack? That its not on?

 

[Zebra Stars]

Have you told him about the crack? That its not on?

yep, he said it was just a bday thing and he won't do it again =)