Am I in the wrong?? What do I do??

[Jade85]

Some of you may have read my other thread. Basically fob has been very nasty to me the past few days, my confdence has hit an all time low.

Any way he was adamant that he didn't want to see me/be in the same room as me, for ages, but as its my sons birthday the weekend he said he ants to forget about it so he can come up and stay here the weekend.

But I've told him I want an apology first?? He said no as he meant everything he said!! So I've said well forget it then until you can apologise!!

Am I wrong??

xx

 

[jessrabbit]

just read your other post and think you do deserve more than an apology. His behaviour sounds abusive and he is wearing you down trying to make you feel unworthy of anything more than his horrible behaviour.

Think you have to ask yourself if you really need that kind of negative energy near you or your son.

Sounds to me like he needs to grow up.

Good luck and stay strong, you deserve so much better

 

[Jade85]

Thnaks hun, he's trying to be nice to me now, saying he's coming up for a couple of hours. I said I'dgo in another room while he's here and he said hy, thought we were gonna get on? Just don't know i I can even look at him again now I know whathe really thinks of me. He's point blank refused to apologise.

xx

 

[lilyd]

Tbh if I were you, if he got down on his knees & begged I wouldn't allow him back in my house after the things he's said.

You are the mother of his child and he should be showing you total respect for raising his child. Until he can respect you I would tell him to do one!

 

[TiredNurse27]

I'd be prepared to wait for that apology. I know it's hard but little boys need to learn some time.

 

[Jade85]

Still waiig for my apology, still saying I'm not gonna get one!!

I don't want my LO going to stay with him for the weekend as he lives so far away. Am I wrong in doing this??

xx

 

[littlekitten8]

Ur not wrong hun. He sounds like an abusive, immature idiot. I would refuse to let him anywhere near til he can accept he is in the wrong and treat you with the respect you deserve!