Am I Pregnant? Or Just Paranoid?

[LittleBear7]

I think the idea of a therapist would be to address the underlying reasons that you are unable to accept a definitive diagnosis of not pregnant, rather than "convince you" that your not pregnant.

I'm naturally a very anxious person. Plus in my culture it's heavily shunned to have a baby without a husband. I guess I just have a terrifying fear of being black balled from my community. And having a depressing a lonesome life, because nobody from my community would want me anymore. It's really nerve wrecking. He was my first and only, and I think I've learned my lesson. I won't be having sex until marriage. The anxiety is just too much, and it's not worth it. (I'm not under 18, the community I come from is just rather strict/ judgmental at times)

 

[justhoping]

They would not miss the baby on your ultrasound, and you've had negative hpts. If you're this concerned, do you think maybe talking to a therapist might help?

I don't see how a therapist will be able to convince me... Unless my period comes, or 9 months have come and gone. I'm a complete wreck.

because you seem beyond stressed about it making you have symptoms and making your life sort of on hold for 9 months...that is not normal...
a therapist can help you sort through all this and help you and your body realize you are not pregnant and help you destress..

 

[Leids]

You are definitely not pregnant. Any of those tests alone would detect a pregnancy, all of them combined completely seals the deal that you are not pregnant.

I think you're stressing so much that it's preventing you from having a period. I also agree that you should possibly seek therapy as it sounds like you have very severe anxiety issues.

 

[Misscalais]

Hun, you aren't pregnant.
I have a retroverted uterus ( which makes it harder to see things on ultrasound ) and we were still able to see a gestation sac and a yolk sac at 5 weeks 3 days for me. I just had a bladder and kidney ultrasound and we seen baby again, when I emptied my bladder fully we were still clearly able to see her/him.
Sounds like you are extremely stressed out you poor thing.
Don't really have any advice just wanted to send some