Hi.. OK I'll make this as quick as possible. I have 2 kids 10 and 15. I'm not on any birth control and I am married. After my last child I gained weight and cycles became very irregular. However I recently lost about 25lbs and they have regulated again. On march 8th-11th was my last regular period. On April 1- 4th I had spotting. 1 tampon per day with just a brownish pink lil spot on the tip when I removed it. That's all. That started about a Week before my period was actually due on the 6th. On the 7th I got a negative test and assumed that was it. Today is the 14th and I've been cramping, but no period. Surely the test would have shown positive the day after my period was due. What do you guys think? We don't use birth control just the withdrawal method. Have had a few close calls and not sures lately. there were 5 years between my last 2 and my 2nd was conceived after weight loss also.