am i to young?

[angel1990]

i get engaged 2 months after turning 18. i want to get married next christmas, is 21 to young?

any other young brides? how did family take it?

any advice would be appreciated. thanks girlies mxxxx

 

[MoonMuffin]

I was married in '08 at age 19, my parents were fine with it since we had a baby and already lived together. If your ready then don't worry about your age

 

[nicholatmn]

We got engaged at 18, but didn't marry for two years.
I don't think it's too young at all!

 

[kitty1987]

You're an adult! not too young hun. I'll be 23 and a couple of people said it's too young so I just asked when I should get married????? We have a baby who's nearly one and have been together 4 years lol not planning on leaving OH so why not get married!

 

[Connah'sMommy]

me and Aaron (OH) got engaged when i was 18 and we are getting married july next year. ill be 21 by then too.

if you're sure you want to marry your OH then go for it hun.

xxx

 

[Vici]

No one can say you are too young, its up to you

For me, i'm very very glad I didn't get married young. I was with my partner at the time for over 3 yrs and we had a house, TTC etc but what I thought was wonderful really wasn't in the end. It took me a few years of life experience to be fully ready to be married.

Having said that, my mums friends got together at 13, married at 17 and they are still together 40 yrs later x

 

[Ley]

I was married in 07 at age 20, so no I don't think 21 is too young
if you think you are ready then go for it!

 

[EstelSeren]

I'm 21 and will still be 21 when I get married in April. I've been engaged since I was 19 and would be married already if we'd had the money!
So no, I don't think 21 is too young to get married!

Beca :wave:

 

[livestrong]

No I don't think 21 is too young! I got engaged when I was 20 and will be 22 when I get married next year. You can't put an age on love and If you know what you want then I say go for it!

 

[enola]

Another vote for 'not too young'!
I'm bias, married at 22 last year and pregnant straight away, but I think it's def. a case of 'once you know, you know'
About 30 years ago we'd have been the majority remember!
Besides, my big bro and his wife got married when she was 16 (ran away to Gretna Green!) and have now been married 14 years with two little boys - everyone frowned on them but they're still together!
Don't let anyone tell you what to do to be happy x

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

yes far to young. what were you thinking!

seriously im kidding i was married by 19

 

[history_girls]

I was engaged at 22 and married at 23 - so a bit older but all my friends kept saying I was far too young.

Ignore other people but also for yourself if you are sure that he is the one then i see no reason not to get married! I was overwhelmed when I first got engaged thinking that my life was over but not at all! Being married hasn't stopped me doing anything different!

 

[babybump2010]

No not too young, if you are both ready then it doewn't matter what other people think.
I will be 22 when I get married this summer!!

 

[xMissxZoiex]

No one knows when there true love will come into there life for some people its later in life and for some they find theres earlyer in life

Im 19 got engaged New years Eve/day just gone .. were having our engagement party 17th april this year I turn 20 on the 6th april then were getting married 17th April 2011 so i will be 21 and 11 days old hehe

I know with a mental health condition its not as easy to just ignore it but if you want to go to bridal shop and have the 'full' wedding planning experience seen as you only get married once right! i wouldnt let some snotty shop assistant take that away from you!

Good luck hope this helps you
Zoie
xxxx

 

[PrayinForBaby]

If it's what you want to do, then go for it! My DH and me met in Sept 2005, lived together by Nov 2005, got engaged in Feb 2006, and married 1 yr to our first date in Sept 2006. We did things quick style, but it worked for us. And here we are, almost 4 years from our wedding anniversary, happy as can be, and expecting our first baby. And if we can survive me almost dying, his mom passing away, my 2 grandmothers passing, and being really poor for the first 2 years together (literally, at one point we couldn't afford toilet tissue)....then I think we can survive anything. =)

Also wanted to add, my wedding was 13 days after my 20th birthday too!

 

[Blob]

I'll be married at 21

 

[RedRose19]

i get engaged 2 months after turning 18. i want to get married next christmas, is 21 to young?

any other young brides? how did family take it?

any advice would be appreciated. thanks girlies mxxxx

i got engaged a month after my 18th bday and ill be just 21 when i get married too.. i dont think its too early if you know hes the one
im so excited.. how are you feeling about it

 

[veganmum2be]

hey i'm 19 and will be getting married this april, i dont turn 20 till october.
oh is 22

my family were fine with it.
i dont think age matters as long as its well thought through xx