I do have a question for you UK ladies...as I don't know a whole lot about the taxing over there...is it alot? I just don't like the idea of me having to foot the bill for everyones healthcare who are unwilling to work. I hate to say it but a lot of Americans are lazy and live off of the welfare system. They take their food stamp money and buy cigarettes and booze. From reading the forum I see alot of people from the UK who are just barely getting by even with both people working, Im wondering if its the taxes that make it like that.
Im against Obamacare a 100%. I have chronic illnesses and the healthcare will have to ultimatelt regulate who can get covered for certain procedures. We do have a friend who lives in the UK who has a problem that flares every few years. There is a simple surgery that he could have done to fix it but they won't allow him to get it since they can treat him when it flares. I dont agree with that. Quality of life means something. Also with reading the forums..I'm glad that when I gave birth I was able to have my own room. I couldn't have handled having to share with another woman. But thats just me. I really am curious. Not trying to start a war of words.
I think Harley answered about the taxes, it isnt much more than you pay now but I will say I dont think it is that, personally feel it is the cost of living that makes it difficult for some UK families. For instance my rent of a three bedroom flat (third floor) on a socail housing estate (but it is not socially owned any more) is £1500 or roughly $2400 (although we do have exceptionally high rent here as we are not far from Heathrow London, I think most places would pay about £800/$1300 for a three bed outside of big cities). I have talked with some American ladies on here before and they were surprised at the cost of childcare, one child in nursery aged four and under around here costs about (average) £60 so $94. Our gas costs £6.32 a gallon, so roughly $11 (not sure how much yours cost). So taking just those three into consideration, and we would spend roughly £2900 a month (4643 US dollars). When you consider many people are on minimum wage (£6.19 an hour/$9.9) and with most people working 39 hours a week, so earning £241 ($385) before tax. They would be earning roughly £1050 ($1681) a month and then two of them on those wages, well you can see why it is not do-able. Plus they wouldnt be
entitled to much help, if any, with a joint income of £25k (roughly $40k).
If I was your friend, then I would keep pushing to get it sorted. Sometimes you just have to find the right person to refer you. And of course there is the option to take out private healthcare as well, this isnt very expensive.
As for giving birth, I have never seen a shared room labour ward. I have had five babies and all of them I have delivered in my own room (aside from one where it was in theatre). One hospital I went onto a ward after (three other people) but the rest have been individual rooms.
I hope that helps you to understand a little of our system, without any bashing of yours