So last week came the talk from the nursery teacher, "We are referring DS2 to CAMHS as we feel that he has ADHD". I knew it would happen. Actually I believe he has Aspergers but we will see. His nursery teacher is the school SENCO and also the deputy head and she thinks its bad. We are really struggling to cope with him at the moment, he is out of control and bearley sleeps. He is so demanding and severly defiant and voilent. Although we have known it from him being a baby I am struggling to digest it. I was hoping it was a phase even though deep down we knew it wasn't. DS1 has Autism and ADHD and I don't know how I am going to cope knowing it will never get better with either of them.