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My baby was born with a TOF long story short it means she was born unable to swallow and to this day is still in hospital undergoing surgery every 2 weeks to correct the issue. We thought she was going to be a normal happy 37 week delivery. It wasn't to be..... Anyway......
I feel really awful for being judgemental at other people but as I was unable to feed my oldest son myself (due to severe tongue tie and he refused to go back on the breast and would get so upset if we tried) I was hoping to bf with our little girl..... I felt it has been ripped away from me and I've expressed until my supply dropped to low an nothing helped to get enough for her.
But I'm rambling.... I find myself getting so angry with mum's who try brest feeding once in nicu and saying ahhh baby cried so much I don't think they want to do it. I'm going to bottled feed.
I've always been one of those people who says each to there own and whatever works best for your family. But I think now it's been stripped from us it overly gets to me.
Don't know what this threads about really other than needing to get it out there and vent my in silly frustrations.
I feel so judgemental and silly.
Xx
I feel really awful for being judgemental at other people but as I was unable to feed my oldest son myself (due to severe tongue tie and he refused to go back on the breast and would get so upset if we tried) I was hoping to bf with our little girl..... I felt it has been ripped away from me and I've expressed until my supply dropped to low an nothing helped to get enough for her.
But I'm rambling.... I find myself getting so angry with mum's who try brest feeding once in nicu and saying ahhh baby cried so much I don't think they want to do it. I'm going to bottled feed.
I've always been one of those people who says each to there own and whatever works best for your family. But I think now it's been stripped from us it overly gets to me.
Don't know what this threads about really other than needing to get it out there and vent my in silly frustrations.
I feel so judgemental and silly.
Xx