Angry at DH

[mercedybear]

its nice to know I am not the only one with these feelings, it is getting better for sleep during the night but LO is very hard to get to sleep at night, dh goes to bed at 10 and she is still awake which pisses me off,lol! I did wake her up once last night at 2:30 am as her last feed was 10pm...then dh fed her again at 6:30 am so we do let her go a bit longer as she no longer wakes up on her own hungry.........

 

[Noo]

Did I read that you wake her up for feeds? Is there a reason for this?

I have learned that she needs to eat every 3-4 hrs so in the middle of the night I have to wake her up for feedings...is this incorrect???

I wouldn't wake during the night so long as she is gaining plenty of weight and you have regular wet and dirty nappies and feeds are regular throughout the day. I'd make sure she had a good feed before going to bed and then leave to sleep. I think I'd cry if I had to wake my baby I do wake him if he is still asleep when I want to go to bed though. I change him, feed him and then we go to bed (co-sleep) - This usually means feeding 11.30-1. Sometimes he'll then sleep till 7am, othertimes he'll wake up 4-5am and then again around 9. If he is hungry - He wakes up and asks for food.