My baby shower is 2 weeks from today (sun dec 4th) and invitations got sent out probably 3-4 weeks ago now. We invited like 15-20 people and we put "PLEASE RSVP BY SUNDAY NOV 20TH) which is today. I called my sis in law who is planning the shower and she told me that 2 people have rsvp'd. SERIOUSLY? two?! I've contacted a couple people and they're like "oh i totally forgot" wtf our invites were printed on magnets so you can put them on the fridge so you DONT forget. I feel like people don't even care. All my family and alan's family is like "don't worry you'll have family there, thats all that matters" and i know they've bought tons of stuff for the baby. But still, it pisses me off that friends don't even care anymore.