Another BFN

[a1b2c3]

My dh and I have been ttc for over a year. My mother was on fertility drugs for almost 7 years to get me, and then had 5 miscarriages after me.

2 years ago I had to have treatment for a bad smear. I am now seeing a consultant at the hospital trying to find out what is wrong with me as my dh had a sa and is fine.

I honestly thought this month we had done it! I had painful boobs (I never get this!) along with various other 'signs'. I am 12dpo. This morning I thought I'd take a test. It was a BFN. It was followed on hour later by af.

I am so fed up. I feel like a complete failure. Has anyone got any words of wisdom? I have never felt so crap and have spent the last several hours bursting in and out of tears. I feel ridiculous but I'm sure I'm not alone?!

 

[Amber3]

Hi there
I understand what you are going trough. I have been ttc for more than 4 years. I would recommend you to look into Low GI diet. This diet makes your blood sugar totally stable and has been proven in scientific tests to affect (both male and female) fertility greatly.
I am just now starting the diet myself so if you are interested look at the thread called Low Gi Diet
There is goos reason to hope. Also you should know that repetetive miscarriages is one of the areas where fertility treatment has the best succes rates. In the treatment that I have been into NaProTechnology the people with this problem has more than 80% chance of having children
Amber

 

[a1b2c3]

Hi Amber,

Thank you for your advice. I will look into the Low GI Diet. I am honestly prepared to try anything at this point.

I didn't know about miscarriages having good fertility treatments/success rates. It definately helps to put my mind at rest, although obviously, I just pray that I don't have to go through what my mother did.

I wish you the best of luck going forward.

Thanks again.