lori
Mom to Simon & Oliver
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I just need to rant. Both my mom and my MIL are driving me crazy, but it's not anything I can call them out on because they would just say they're kidding or that I'm being too defensive.
My mom always likes to say "your mean mommy won't let you do such-and-such", makes jokes about how my son can come live with her if we're mean, and the other day she made a joke about how his first word was going to be "grandma" and kept repeating it over and over in his face. REALLY made me angry. She makes "jokes" about how LO would be better off with her instead of me and OH. I get this crazy feeling that she's a bit jealous and sees me as an obstacle in her way. Makes me kind of sad
My MIL always talks through the baby (acting cutesy) to criticize our parenting decisions. We get constant guilt trips for not being available every single time she decides she wants to see LO that day. How dare we have plans? She looks after foster kids and is incredibly strict with them (I'd call her just plain mean), and I can't imagine leaving my baby in that situation. Her response to everything is "well I never had a bit of help with my babies" (when I know damn well she did) then complains that my mom is spending every day at my house with the baby (SO not true)
This was pointless, just needed to get it off my chest
My mom always likes to say "your mean mommy won't let you do such-and-such", makes jokes about how my son can come live with her if we're mean, and the other day she made a joke about how his first word was going to be "grandma" and kept repeating it over and over in his face. REALLY made me angry. She makes "jokes" about how LO would be better off with her instead of me and OH. I get this crazy feeling that she's a bit jealous and sees me as an obstacle in her way. Makes me kind of sad
My MIL always talks through the baby (acting cutesy) to criticize our parenting decisions. We get constant guilt trips for not being available every single time she decides she wants to see LO that day. How dare we have plans? She looks after foster kids and is incredibly strict with them (I'd call her just plain mean), and I can't imagine leaving my baby in that situation. Her response to everything is "well I never had a bit of help with my babies" (when I know damn well she did) then complains that my mom is spending every day at my house with the baby (SO not true)
This was pointless, just needed to get it off my chest