Well I met up with 2 ex colleagues today. We all worked at the same place and after redundancies moved to a new office together as well, which is how we became close.
During that time, they were both trying while I was left out but going through broodiness HELL as my OH was having none of it.
They both had tough times (one struggled to conceive for over a year, then the other lost her first due to a birth defect) but they both received their first BFPs within 2 weeks of each other. Although genuinely happy for them given what they had been through, there was a certain element of me having to put on a brave face.
Anyway today, one has an 18 month old, the other a 9 month old. The one with the 9 month old (who is also the one who lost her first) is preg again and she hasn't even returned to work from maternity leave yet!
I have to say, compared to when they both got their first BFPs, I wasn't in least bit jealous, especially given what she's been through, probably because we haven't actually TTC yet until AF shows her ugly face.
There is a part of me that's a bit miffed yes, but mostly I'm angry at my Hubby for making me wait! For DH, it always comes down to money, he can be so selfish sometimes, we're FAR more financially secure than they are and they're both younger than me and are having another one!
Anyway, rant over! They're a lovely couple and I'm glad to have them in my life, I suppose today I just felt a bit awkward as I don't really have any anything to contribute to the conversation when we meet with the kids in tow. And god bless them today, they didn't ask anything about my situation since they knew about my DH view on the matter (although I wish they had so I could talk to someone about it).
On the plus side though, I've noticed a couple of pimples on my face, I'll take that as a sign that at least some hormones are raging in my body somewhere so hopefully AF shows up soon.
Sorry for long post
During that time, they were both trying while I was left out but going through broodiness HELL as my OH was having none of it.
They both had tough times (one struggled to conceive for over a year, then the other lost her first due to a birth defect) but they both received their first BFPs within 2 weeks of each other. Although genuinely happy for them given what they had been through, there was a certain element of me having to put on a brave face.
Anyway today, one has an 18 month old, the other a 9 month old. The one with the 9 month old (who is also the one who lost her first) is preg again and she hasn't even returned to work from maternity leave yet!
I have to say, compared to when they both got their first BFPs, I wasn't in least bit jealous, especially given what she's been through, probably because we haven't actually TTC yet until AF shows her ugly face.
There is a part of me that's a bit miffed yes, but mostly I'm angry at my Hubby for making me wait! For DH, it always comes down to money, he can be so selfish sometimes, we're FAR more financially secure than they are and they're both younger than me and are having another one!
Anyway, rant over! They're a lovely couple and I'm glad to have them in my life, I suppose today I just felt a bit awkward as I don't really have any anything to contribute to the conversation when we meet with the kids in tow. And god bless them today, they didn't ask anything about my situation since they knew about my DH view on the matter (although I wish they had so I could talk to someone about it).
On the plus side though, I've noticed a couple of pimples on my face, I'll take that as a sign that at least some hormones are raging in my body somewhere so hopefully AF shows up soon.
Sorry for long post