any advice? dont feel good bout this

[lisa_33]

hi ladies, just wondered if anyone feels like me. i just dont feel pregnant, seem to have no symtoms other than cramps for last few weeks. just so unhappy, i try to stay positive, but cant get excitied at all. i am so sure that something is wrong. i have my booking in app with midwife 2morro, was really looking forward to it, now its approaching i am getting scared. all i seem to do is sit on here and cry at all the sad stories that some of the poor souls on here go through. i have a 12 and 14 year old already from a previous relationship and i def did not worry like this, i dont know whether its because i am older or more aware of what can go wrong. i then feel guilty that if my baby is okay, that im not excitied and happy like i should be. lisa xxx

 

[chelle81]

hun try not to worry my symptoms have disappeared too it does worry me sometimes but i just keep telling myself no bleeding everything will be fine!! The stories on here sometimes make you worse but everybody is different mention how you are feeling to your midwife tomorrow she may refer you for a scan early to put your mind at ease xx

 

[lisa_33]

thanks hun, i know your right. i will be honest with her 2morro. if my scan is going to be another couple of weeks i will book a private 1 for the weekend.xx

 

[golcarlilly]

I think we all worry too much really, I worry when I have symptoms and worry when I don't, I think sometimes this site is a godsend but then when I read stories of ladies who have bad news I wish I could stay away!! I am doubly worried this time as I too am older (39), my advice is if you have any major worries, ring your doc or midwife and they will either put your mind at rest or may arrange an early scan if there are potential problems

try not to stress I am sure everything will be fine

 

[chelle81]

thanks hun, i know your right. i will be honest with her 2morro. if my scan is going to be another couple of weeks i will book a private 1 for the weekend.xx

Its easier said than done not worrying but honesty with your midwife is the best thing she will be able to put your mind at rest properly as she is the 1 you hold all the faith in usually during pregnancy, an early scan would be good or a private 1 if not so that you dont go out of your mind before your 12 week scan! Once you see little baby is fine you can relax alot more and enjoy pregnancy again and no symptoms is good lol others on here are really plagued by them and pray for no sickness/sore boobs etc we are just the lucky ones maybe!! Good luck tomorrow hun hope you feel better soon keep us updated xxxx

 

[sarahhoney]

Just a quick note if your reading the stories on here and crying it probably means your hormones are going nuts!!!!!

 

[geogem]

Hi there, dont worry too much sweetie - I haven't had any symptoms at all and still dont feel pregnant and I am nearly 14 weeks!!

I have had 2 scans tho and everything is fine!! - I keep thinking that when I get to 40 weeks i'll be thinking how lucky I was to sail through the 1st trimester without any sickness/cramps or anything at all!!

Dont worry too much - I have just started feeling little fluttering movements so I am getting more confident now but before then I had nothing to make me feel any different!!

Good luck at your M/W app!!

 

[Kiddo]

I was the same a week or two back. I didn't have any symptoms to speak of and felt fine. But the symptoms have come back now and again, just not as often or as forceful as before. I think it's just our bodies getting used to being pg and adapting to it. Try not to worry too much, although I know it's easier said than done!

 

[lisa_33]

aww thank u all so much, i have just booked a scan for 2morrow night. i know i could very well have an nhs scan soon, but as u all know how long a couple of weeks can seem. my dh is due home 2morro( works away) so theres only a slight chance that he will make it, i feel so bad about that, but i need reasurrance that everythings okay. just hope they can scan me ok as i have bit of a jelly belly!! xxxx

 

[leeanne]

Symptoms can come and go throughout pregnancy and women experience symptoms differently than others. Try not to worry. I know, easier said than done.

 

[geogem]

I have a jelly belly too - and they managed me okay at 6+6 so dont worry about that!!

 

[lisa_33]

hehe thanks everyone fingers crossed xxxx

 

[nobby'swife]

I worry aswell, but i think it's natural to worry, i know you said about the bad stories, but just think off all the good stories on here aswellxxx

Try not to worry cause you will make yourself worse xx

 

[lisa_33]

my dh always says i should stay off here because of that, but he doesnt realise the support thats on here. and we all feel so much for the girls that things dont work out for. i just hope when we all get through to second tri, that were a bit more relaxed xxx

 

[nobby'swife]

my mum has told me once the bean sticks, there will be no moving it, but if something happens it happens for a reason, i know it's something what we don't want to think about but cause i think everyone goes through different symtoms, you don't know what you should be going through and i think thats what makes you feel worse. xxx

 

[ktsl123]

Don't worry about not feeling pregnant or having no symptoms.
I have talked to many people I know and they felt great throughout there pregnancies.
I myself feel awesome. I am lucky enough to of gotten a u/s at 8 weeks to believe there is really a baby in there because I just didn't believe it!