Any LTTTC ladies want to wait out the 2ww with me?

[honeybeartee]

Snap! I'm 33 too lol

My temp is even higher today so I am even more confident it was ovulation. It means I'm on track for a 29 day cycle, 1st time in my entire life I've had a cycle under 40 days without being on bc. AC must really help me.

 

[LillyTame]

That's awesome you found something that worked for you! And yay for temp confirming OV!

When is your bday?

 

[honeybeartee]

April, dh is 4 years younger than me and I really hate it, I always tell him if I'd known when we met then it would have been different he'll be 30 in April. If I get a bfp this month then according to ff the due date would be his 30th birthday.

 

[LillyTame]

OH is the 1st guy I've dated that is the same age as me, I had always dated older guys. His Bday is in April too! So if we caught this eggy it will be a bday present for him too

Look at this video, I think it's adorable! I'm posting it everywhere lol

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=748532631852513&fref=nf

 

[honeybeartee]

Oh that is by far the cutest most adorable thing I have seen in a long time. Heart warming!
I've already sent it on to lots of ppl.

 

[LillyTame]

4dpo today

What a lazy day today, we did absolutely nothing

Glad you liked the video. I could just watch it over and over!

I'm gonna try to make it to Saturday without testing

 

[honeybeartee]

Definitely a coffee day today!!
Just coming in to 6dpo, we have family coming to stay from Friday to Monday. Think I might test fri morning. It'll be 10dpo, no symptoms really except 1 lumpy achyish bb.
How about you?

 

[LillyTame]

5dpo, nothing to report Having family over will be a good distraction! If you got your BFP would you tell them? How could you contain yourself all weekend if you do!

Going to meet with my wedding planner today, she has a new baby, I wonder if she'll bring her.

 

[honeybeartee]

I thought at 6dpo knowing I had definitely ovulated I would have a bit more of a clue either way but I feel nothing! Not a cramp or anything now.
If I got a BFP I think I'd struggle to say nothing if I'm honest
I'd like to pretend I'm cool & together but I think I'd be a blubbering wreck.

 

[Tink_]

Would I be able to join? I've been trying for 14 months and am currently 3DPO. x

 

[honeybeartee]

Hey tink, I say the more the merrier better odds for a BFP. Lillytame created the thread though

When are you getting married lillytame?
I met my friend today. She gave birth to her third girl last week. Soooo adorable

 

[LillyTame]

I thought at 6dpo knowing I had definitely ovulated I would have a bit more of a clue either way but I feel nothing! Not a cramp or anything now.
If I got a BFP I think I'd struggle to say nothing if I'm honest
I'd like to pretend I'm cool & together but I think I'd be a blubbering wreck.

I'm glad I have this site because I'm going to want to tell EVERYONE as soon as I get my BFP but OH wants us to keep it quiet for awhile. He had 2 losses in a previous relationship

We are getting married December 13th. I met with my planner, she didn't bring her baby. Get this...she said she almost died giving birth and had to get a hysterectomy! The placenta tried to come out with part of her uterus so there was bleeding they couldn't stop. She is 35. Luckily this is her 3rd and she felt like she was done anyway but its still hard when it wasn't your decision to be 100% sure you don't want more naturally.

Would I be able to join? I've been trying for 14 months and am currently 3DPO. x

Hi Tink Come on in! Feeling optimistic this cycle?

 

[honeybeartee]

Oh that's really sad. Would that have put her in to menopause so?

7dpo and still nothing to report, temp gone up again and felt like I was coming down with something last night. I'm just waiting for the morning that my temp drops & my chart looks like a cliff edge.

 

[Tink_]

Thank you ladies for the welcome, it's much appreciated!

Wow Lillie, that's so sad with your wedding planner bless her. Exciting for your wedding though. I've just started planning mine and love hearing about other people's. I know it's December but is it a summer wedding or winter? Sorry, not sure where you live so what season it will be.

Honeybeartee, hope your chart reveals something soon for you

I'm sort of optimistic this cycle, well trying my best to be but my temps seem all over the place so I'm really nervous that FF is wrong and that I haven't actually O'd. One thing that is keeping me slightly more sane is that I have an appointment on the 1st of September to arrange blood tests to check for ovulation & hormones etc so if I don't conceive this cycle (again!!) then at least there will be some progress on looking in to why. Still, lets hope I don't need those blood tests ;-)

 

[LillyTame]

6dpo, nothing to report. But I'm pretty proud of myself that I haven't been tempted to test yet I think it helps that I'm having no "signs" and this week is moving kinda fast, had a busy day yesterday and today has been busy too. I might cheat though and test the same day as you, honey When do you think you will test tink?

Oh that's really sad. Would that have put her in to menopause so?

You know, I have no clue how that works

Wow Lillie, that's so sad with your wedding planner bless her. Exciting for your wedding though. I've just started planning mine and love hearing about other people's. I know it's December but is it a summer wedding or winter? Sorry, not sure where you live so what season it

It's a summer wedding really, we live in Hawaii. It's kinda unofficial year round summer here lol

I think your temps really do look like you ovulated, have you had some cycles where you didn't? I temped my 1st year. Usually to confirm OV they do test 7-9dpo. So don't be surprised if you don't get that one done and have to go back. But there are a ton of other tests to be done

 

[Tink_]

I'll probably test sooner than I should but my sensible head says the 20th or 21st.

Ah yeah, can see why those bloods don't always show! I only recently started temping about 4 months ago and noticed that on a couple of months there was no ovulation pinpointed even though OPKS were positive and then 2 months there was ovulation. After that though my cycles have suddenly become very irregular which has made me quite nervous about what's going on which probably isn't helping!

Ah, yay for a summer wedding! Mine will be in Spring but it's the UK so it could be gorgeous or it could be very, very rainy!

 

[LillyTame]

What month in the spring? Congratulations! Wedding are exciting and nerve wrecking! lol I've been since last August (he proposed on my bday). I can't wait to be done!

Can I ask how old you are, tink? You are very patient! I started doing my infertility work up about 9 months in even though I've always had regular cycles. Even when my cycles were longer they were still regular. I think they were longer because I was coming off depo, but this year they are quite normal (as far as length) and regular.

 

[honeybeartee]

Hey ladies,
How are you both doing today? First off, Lilly, Hawaii?? Wow!! I live in Ireland & I'm sure tink will agree as we are quite close to the uk, you never know what you are gonna see when you open the curtains in the morning. These past few days we've had all 4 seasons in 1 day
How exciting that you are both planning weddings, if you get your bfp those dresses will need to be let out an inch or 2, maybe 3

8dpo for me today, was expecting my usual AF symptoms to start by now but so far nothing other than being completely exhausted, been in bed & fast asleep before DH for the last few nights which is unusual. Other than that there is nothing to report.

Tink I've been using AC for 2 months as I have very irregular cycles, 50+ days and no ovulation, last month was 44 days and this month I'm on track for 29 day cycle with ovulation on cd15 after bbt tracking. Maybe they might help with your irregular cycle?

Felt the urge to poas this morning but I know it's too early so resisted. Going to wait till Friday morning. U up for that Lilly?

 

[Tink_]

Lily, I'm getting married 23rd of April so hmm, April showers! Aw that's so lovely he proposed on your birthday but I definitely know what you mean about it being nice to be over and done with as well because so much pressure & planning.

I'm 24 (not for very long!) but I'm in the UK so they won't do any testing on the NHS until you have been trying for 12 months. It's been horrible and I've been so impatient about it but tried to accept I can't change it either.

@Honeybear, yay for no symptoms of AF so far, that sounds really promising! Well done for waiting to POAS - think it only leads to disappointment but at least by Friday you stand a chance and Lily too. Good luck to you both

I might try AC actually! I used it for a month last year but it was making me sick but perhaps will try it again and hopefully if I can manage it better with food etc I won't feel so unwell. Thanks for the tip

 

[honeybeartee]

Tink I had a bad month on AC last month too, dreaded starting it again but this month was much better.

I think I spoke too soon about the no AF symptoms. My right is feeling like the usual ache is starting.
I wish I could just relax and stop symptom spotting. Why do we put ourselves through it all the time?