any one dealt with emotional blackmail..

[NewToThis_x]

My ex is making it very hard for us to get on with our lifes..one min he's saying really hurtful things to me the next he's saying things like "il take the baby", "you're making me feel like i dont want to live", "i still want you/love you..how can u do this to me"....etc etc etc.

Bearing in mind it was him that broke up with me and the only reason we arnt together..apart from the fact he's acting bad is that he lives in manchester and im up in Glasgow..4 hours apart and he refuses to move up here...

I just wondered if anyone else has had the same sort of thing said to them and how they dealt with it..everything he says is really getting to me!!

 

[DizzyMoo]

Hiya hun , I live in lancashire & my other half stockport by bus its 2 hrs from my house to his (i dont drive) , He was practically living with me before i got preg & now he just isnt anywhere to be found. Few weeks back i tried asking him if he really wanted us & if not to just say he went nuts saying it must be me who wants to split coz i brought it up, He's had me in tears for weeks now & i got so run down i got 3 infections
He just left me to it . (sobs)

Messing with your head is what men do a bloody good job at eh hun x

 

[NewToThis_x]

Awww what an idiot!
Yehhh 'bout all mines good for at the mo..

 

[sezzlebum]

cut contact with them chick, their just trying to make you feel the twat, its all your fault their so messed up etcetc totally not worth your time or energy babe x
when he gets his head from up his arse tell him to contact you until then bubyeeeeee

 

[missjacey44]

My ex was the same, He cheated on me with my best friend when i was pregnant so i finished the relationship and he moved out.. once baby was born he said he didnt want to see or pay for baby UNLESS we were together. I had to choose.. Be very unhappy with a man i cant trust and dont love just so my son has his dad there 24/7 and let my son see/hear arguements and unhappiness. Or cut all contact with the man so its just me and my son and i am HAPPY and my son is HAPPY and doesnt and wont be around constant arguments and unhappiness.

 

[babystar]

you girls are more than strong enuff to love and look after both yourselves and LOs without selfish OHs head-fucking like this. You will all be fine you dont need them

 

[AppleBlossom]

Oh yes. "Grace is my life, I can't live without her.." when arranging access is just one of them.

Prats