any one else or am I just crazy

[Smokey_Bandit]

Anyone else ever notice how when you really want a you start to see things differently, or am I just the crazy one

Like for example You start thinking of how things should be baby proofed or what types of things in your house as well as friends houses that could be potential health hazards to the child you dont yet have?

Ever since I was told a little over a week ago that I couldn't have kids, I started seeing how things would be if I did have a child. How somethings would be put oh a higher shelf or cabinets locked....


OH says I'm just baby crazy.... which maybe I am a little bit, but I just can't come to terms with not being able to have my own child. I didn't notice how much I actually wanted to be a momma until I got told it would never happen. And things are really hard on me right now, everyone I know either seems to be pregnant, or just had a baby, and my bff since highschool has asked me to help plan her sons (my godsons) first birthday. I was so excited to help, then it hit me that I would probably never be doing that for my own child... sorry this turned into a bit of a rant

 

[sg0720]

i definitely like day dream about all the what if i got preg again and what would it be liek and all types of things..i think its normal

 

[Babydustx3]

I noticed this yesterday actually. When I was cleaning the house I was thinking of how much I'll need to move things around when we get there. I love cleaning though so I'm okay with it haha! But yea, we definitely will be cutting back on the decor we have out. I'm ready for it though; bring it on mother nature! haha.I'm sorry you were given that news though. So many women have been told that and have had multiple children.

 

[Smokey_Bandit]

So glad to see I'm not the only one who thinks of this stuff

I love cleaning as well, so moving things around will be easy.

And I have read about women being told they can't have kids and end up haveing kids... I hope thats the same for me as well.

 

[Babydustx3]

So glad to see I'm not the only one who thinks of this stuff

I love cleaning as well, so moving things around will be easy.

And I have read about women being told they can't have kids and end up haveing kids... I hope thats the same for me as well.

I really hope so too sweetie.

 

[lilyV]

we've been ttc for 8 months and I think we've been looking at our place longer than 8 months on how to ensure its child proof. think it's 'normal' and 'smart'.

I'm sorry about your situation. *hugs*