Any other summer D&C's trying for fall BFP?

[Laska5]

I am BEYOND frustrated & am wondering too if having a baby is for me after all this that I'm going through! I'm so tired of my body not wanting to be normal!! So many women after me have had miscarriages & have been able to move on but NOT ME- nope my body does not want to move on!

I finished my progesterone on Friday & I'm suppose to of had a lot of bleeding by now & there is nothing, not a drop of blood or cramping or any other AF symptoms I should be having by now.

I'm so upset & trying not to be depressed. WHY WHY WHY!?!?!?


I told my doctor & they just said it should 'happen soon.' GRRR How much longer do I have to wait to return to normal???????? At this rate I'll be lucky to have a winter BFP. It's looking more & more like I'm out for fall.

 

[JandJPlus1]

I had an early miscarriage in June. Not sure if it counts for this since I didn't have a D&C. Everything passed naturally and I was only 7 weeks pregnant but it was the hardest thing I've ever gone through. We are on cycle one TTCing since we had originally wanted to wait until our son was a year old. I'm on cycle day 16 now and not positive if I've ovulated yet. Check out my thread if you think you can help determine my OPK's haha. Hoping for the best for everyone.

 

[fluffet521]

Hi, ladies! I hope you don't mind that I'm jumping in on your thread.

I'd love to have some fall TTC buddies, too. I had a D&C on June 5th. I understand exactly how you feel Laska, being emotionally exhausted afterwards. I'm a little shocked your friends are bugging you about when you'll start trying again, though. No offense, of course, but you've already been through a hard time and need time to mourn the loss of your little angel!

Anyway, I'd love to be friends!

 

[fluffet521]

Hoping, i really like your family status "TTC #1" how did you do it? I couldnt find it in the drop menu

I was reading about temping in the 1st time moms thread, then i did a lot of googling and now i want to try temping I cant choose a therm though, some say rectal, some say oral, does anyone here temp, or shall i go ask in the other thread?

hugs

Hi, Kika! :wave: Are you still interested in temping? I temp and can can give some pointers if so...

 

[MommytoLBG]

Hi girls. Hugs to everyone today.

Laska ~ so sorry you are still going through this. How are you feeling today (as you posted a few days ago)?

Kika ~ how are you doing since your last post??

JandJ ~ can't help you at all with opks...sorry...

fluffet ~ welcome!!

Hoping ~ love the pic!!!

 

[HopingCarter]

Thanks Mommy! How r u doing these days?

 

[JandJPlus1]

Keep up hope ladies. The end result is so worth it.

 

[Laska5]

Thanks Mommy!

I started spotting on wednesday & today it's a bit heavier - not the incredibly heavy bleed that I was told I would have. Not really sure what this means. I'm having some cramping so I'm hoping this is truly AF, but it's also really similar to what I had last month at this time that didn't stop until I started progesterone. I'm starting to feel like I'll never be normal again. I don't understand why my body is acting like this- my cycles were always regular & predictable before - but now after 5 years on mirena & 1 miscarriage- it's all wacked up.

 

[fluffet521]

Aw, Laska, keep your chin up, hun. It WILL happen for you, it's just taking some time. Hang in there!

 

[aPharmD]

I haven't been on here in forever. its been a crappy week for me. we have to put my pup down today.

laska, so sorry. I can only imagine your frustration. it sucks that some people's bodies jump right back into things and others take so long. you will get back to normal though at some point. im sure of it. don't give up!!

hoping, hows the SMEP going for ya?

im currently CD11 so just trying to wait as patiently as possible for O on ~CD18.

 

[fluffet521]

aPharm, I'm so sorry to hear about your pup! I know that's difficult, animals are a part of the family! My thoughts and prayers go out to you, hun.

 

[HopingCarter]

Sorry about your pup aPharmD

 

[MommytoLBG]

Sorry about your pup aPharm...

 

[aPharmD]

How is everyone today?!

 

[fluffet521]

OK here...2 DPO so I'm just trying to enjoy the TWW! How about you?

 

[aPharmD]

Good luck fluffet!! I'm cd 13 so just waiting to O. Last month I O'ed on cd 18 but I took b6 this cycle to lengthen the luteal phase so it may be sooner than that this cycle.

 

[fluffet521]

Good luck to you, too, aPharm!

 

[Laska5]

So sorry for your pup Pham, that is heartbreaking!

I defiantly expelled some weird tissue yesterday- definitley was not a blood clot, very weird shape & a spongy look to it- I'm thinking maybe I did have some retained products that have been sitting in my uterus for some time now (an ultrasound 2 weeks ago saw something that they couldn't rule out). Anyways- I've stopped spotting since then- hopefully this is it for me & we'll be on the way to SMEP soon!

 

[aPharmD]

Yay laska!! I hope this is it for you and you can get back to normal and can ttc again! I'm on cd 14 and I just got my peak! I never get a peak until day 16 or 17. I tried vitamin b6 this cycle so maybe it's a coincidence or maybe it worked!! Just sitting here patiently waiting for hubby to finish eating dinner so we can go bd!! Hehe!

 

[HopingCarter]

Woohoo aPharmD. FXd for you hum. Catch that egg!

Laska, glad to hear everything's progressing for you and you can get back to trying now. I hope this is your cycle hun