can you feel or tell that your cervix has shortened at all? As in, were there any pains or feelings that you noticed around the time that it suddenly shortened? Or did you just know because your doctor measured it? Again, I'm sorry if that sounds like a completely ridiculous question!
How much was your private scan if you don't mind me asking? It's just a good option for if the doctor won't measure me very regularly!
Also - bed rest. Is it as boring as it sounds? I know it's absolutely necessary, though what do you do to keep yourself entertained for that many weeks in bed? Also, I imagine that you have to sign off work sick or something as it's for so long, and then start your maternity leave once the baby arrives?
Hello! More than happy to try to answer your questions!
I haven't really felt any pain in my cervix, and most women who have 'incompetent cervix' don't, until it's too late. Having said that, at each point in the days leading up to having my stitch put in, my vagina did feel 'heavy', if that makes sense, like it was full? But not everyone feels anything, as the cervix can silently open.
My private scans were about £130 i think (you need to tell them you want a cervical length scan, not just a normal abdominal scan, as the cost can be different) but prices do seem to vary enormously so shop around if you do decide to get one.
Bed rest is pretty awful. I've been on it for 8 week now, and hopefully have only a few more to go before i feel i can start to leave the house again for coffee trips! I spend most of my day lying down on the sofa, or in bed, getting up just to wee, shower, or make quick snacks. With my first pregnancy, i watched a LOT of TV, knitted a terrible scarf, tried to learn Spanish etc.
This time round I wasn't working as i am still at home. I have a two year old daughter to try to amuse, so it's been more stressful. I watch a lot of CBEEBIES, feel a lot of guilt that her days are too boring, plus make sure each day friends or family pop in, or bring me shopping, or make me lunch. Its been hard, both physically and emotionally, but it does feel like there's a light at the end of the tunnel now.
But really, not everyone with a cervical stitch has to go on bed rest. It really varies, and some people have a stitch and carry on working, albeit taking it a bit easier when they can. If you want more information or support, look at the Incompetent Cervix thread in the Gestational Complications part of the pregnancy forums. Very friendly, and can give you any more advise you need.
But really, try not to worry. Lots of people have surgery on their cervix's and it doesn't effect their pregnancy. But i think it's wise to be informed, and make sure you get the care and attention from the doctors over the coming weeks, even if its just to reassure you that you're fine!
Good luck and keep me posted!!!
Kate x