TheNewMrs
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Hey Girlies,
So yesterday my hubby was granted access to see his son for 1 hour a week till sept. He raised his son by himself while mum fled to spain-arrived home and said baby wasnt his... Took the baby and moved away. That was 7 years ago, the baby is now 8 and hubby hasnt seen him in that long, she sent a maintenance order to the house and hubby said he wouldnt pay till he got a paternity test. (He'd asked from the first day she said tht that he wanted one and she wouldnt agree)... 2 days before our wedding we found out the baby is his.
So access starts on Saturday. Obv it will be hubby only for the first few months... I dunno how I feel about it. We havent told anyone were TTC so I feel like if we do get pregnant people will think its only coz now he has another child?
I do feel upset that he has a child with someone else but thats just a personal thing, Im delighted hes getting to see his son and Im excited that he'll be part of my life too.. I just dunno what my boundaries are, what my role is supposed to be???
Ugh! MEssy business...
So yesterday my hubby was granted access to see his son for 1 hour a week till sept. He raised his son by himself while mum fled to spain-arrived home and said baby wasnt his... Took the baby and moved away. That was 7 years ago, the baby is now 8 and hubby hasnt seen him in that long, she sent a maintenance order to the house and hubby said he wouldnt pay till he got a paternity test. (He'd asked from the first day she said tht that he wanted one and she wouldnt agree)... 2 days before our wedding we found out the baby is his.
So access starts on Saturday. Obv it will be hubby only for the first few months... I dunno how I feel about it. We havent told anyone were TTC so I feel like if we do get pregnant people will think its only coz now he has another child?
I do feel upset that he has a child with someone else but thats just a personal thing, Im delighted hes getting to see his son and Im excited that he'll be part of my life too.. I just dunno what my boundaries are, what my role is supposed to be???
Ugh! MEssy business...