Monix
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Hi! Just wondering if anyone has found a way to make this easier for everyone?
I am a stay at home mom with a 1 year old and a 3 year old. We do a lot of socializing (almost every day) with kids their age, but I’m usually there.
In December my son started ski school 2 days per week. He started the same week he turned 3. We had talked about it, visited the area, been skiing together, I had him in a program once a week for 2 hours without me. But he gets so upset EVERY time I take him. He’s fine after I leave and for the rest of the day, but he’s crying and needs to be carried every morning. None of the other kids are like this. His best buddy is in the same program and same sitiation (stay at home mom) but he was fine from the beginning.
It’s really hard on the instructors I’m sure, and on me and on my son. I wish I could make this transition easier but I’m out of ideas. Does anyone have an idea?
We ski with him on the weekends and he loves it so it’s not the skiing that’s upsetting him I don’t think. His instructor is so nice and gentle with him so it couldn’t be her. I’ve tried quick drop offs, and also going early so we can have a steamed milk and talk about the day first. We get really excited for him and make a big deal about his skiing but he doesn’t care. I’ve asked him what’s wrong and he just says that he misses me. This is the 8th week I thought he would be ok by now.
I know he needs to learn to be away from me but I feel awful dropping him off upset every time.
Thanks for any help!
I am a stay at home mom with a 1 year old and a 3 year old. We do a lot of socializing (almost every day) with kids their age, but I’m usually there.
In December my son started ski school 2 days per week. He started the same week he turned 3. We had talked about it, visited the area, been skiing together, I had him in a program once a week for 2 hours without me. But he gets so upset EVERY time I take him. He’s fine after I leave and for the rest of the day, but he’s crying and needs to be carried every morning. None of the other kids are like this. His best buddy is in the same program and same sitiation (stay at home mom) but he was fine from the beginning.
It’s really hard on the instructors I’m sure, and on me and on my son. I wish I could make this transition easier but I’m out of ideas. Does anyone have an idea?
We ski with him on the weekends and he loves it so it’s not the skiing that’s upsetting him I don’t think. His instructor is so nice and gentle with him so it couldn’t be her. I’ve tried quick drop offs, and also going early so we can have a steamed milk and talk about the day first. We get really excited for him and make a big deal about his skiing but he doesn’t care. I’ve asked him what’s wrong and he just says that he misses me. This is the 8th week I thought he would be ok by now.
I know he needs to learn to be away from me but I feel awful dropping him off upset every time.
Thanks for any help!