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i lost my lil baby before xmas and since then me and hubby going through a rough patch im going through hell and hes making things harder he wasnt really bothered about me being pregnant its me who wanted another just wondering if anybody else is going through rough patch:cry:
 
We did for a while, or more like I was being a bitch !!! I think it could be a lot to do with hormones.

My partner was very upset & wanted this baby as much as I did so that makes a difference.

I am really sorry for your loss & I hope you feel better soon xxx
 
I had D&C Dec 22, so I know how you feel and I'm sorry for your loss.
Yup we had one going too. I just don't feel as close to him as I did when I was pregnant. The other day I could sense a distance between us. He said I was annoying.. ? It didn't hurt too much that he said that, because there are times when I think he's being annoying (like when he acts like my 4 yr old daughter for a few days in a row... yeah that's annoying!). And... two days ago I "bitched" at him for his car reeking like cigarettes. He got pissed and said "Of course my car smells like cigarettes, because I smoke!" He has been trying to quit since New Years Day, and is doing well- probably down to 3 per day. But still, he knows I hate that smell and especially when I have to sit in it, it sucks. I blame it on myself though. Guys hate bitching... and us women hate stupidity.

How are you feeling? Have you gotten AF yet? I am still waiting : ( I have had some of the slightest cramping every day though, and my HPTs are finally negative after 4 weeks.
 
thanks girls i dont think he quite realises how im feeling dont get me wrong he d of loved the baby when it would of come along he has 2 from previous relationship and 3 boys with me but i wanted just 1 more hopefully a little princess butwhatever would of been happy im sorry for your losses girls i think im due tmrw or thursday i did ovulation tests to pin point ovulation i tryed to avoid getting pregnant this cycle want everything to heal im trying to get through each day as good as i can dahlia how did you manage after d&c and xmas i found it really tough
 
how you feelin' today? my oh has been distant too and we've been fighting over every stupid thing, or more like i'm being a b%$#& :)
 
Hugs to you all - we are back to normal now - I put it down to my hormones adjusting after the miscarriage. xxxx
 

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