I had D&C Dec 22, so I know how you feel and I'm sorry for your loss.
Yup we had one going too. I just don't feel as close to him as I did when I was pregnant. The other day I could sense a distance between us. He said I was annoying.. ? It didn't hurt too much that he said that, because there are times when I think he's being annoying (like when he acts like my 4 yr old daughter for a few days in a row... yeah that's annoying!). And... two days ago I "bitched" at him for his car reeking like cigarettes. He got pissed and said "Of course my car smells like cigarettes, because I smoke!" He has been trying to quit since New Years Day, and is doing well- probably down to 3 per day. But still, he knows I hate that smell and especially when I have to sit in it, it sucks. I blame it on myself though. Guys hate bitching... and us women hate stupidity.
How are you feeling? Have you gotten AF yet? I am still waiting : ( I have had some of the slightest cramping every day though, and my HPTs are finally negative after 4 weeks.