Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[Turkey16]

Lotusblossom~ huge congrats on your bfp!!!!!! I'm so happy to see you after all we all Wendy through in December

Cali~ I'm sorry about the bfn but like the girls have said, it's still early.

Hey everyone, I hope you girls don't me joining you. I started out as an iui w/ injectables this month however I'm getting converted to Ivf due to over stimulating. This feels like I'm reliving everything I went through in December. But this time I'm prepared and very hopeful! I had an ultrasound today and I had 15 follicles between 9m and 15m. I was instructed to take 75ui of menopur tonight, lupron tomorrow morning and then return on Wednesday for another check. ER is estimated to occur Friday or Saturday, will know for sure on Wednesday

Congrats on having so many follicles! No wonder they wanted to convert you to IVF!

I'm not currently in an IVF/FET right now, I was just explaining to Cali that it is still possible to get a BFP! I'm waiting for AF to show so I can get my trial FET over with and move on to the real one! I have 4 waiting for me I'm hopeful that AF will show this week, I only stopped provera yesterday, so they say 2-3 days and AF should be here!

Ali...you are so patient and so positive!!! You have such an awesome attitude...thanks for hooking me up with this thread. It has been such an inspiration to me. I can't wait for you to get this trial run over so you can move on to the real thing and get your BFP!!!! Thanks again!

 

[FirstTry]

So, I did mean to test this time. I got a BFN on a FRER with FMU. I think we're out this month. I'm okay, surprisingly. I guess I was prepared after yesterday's test at the clinic.

Yesterday, we also got great news about DH's health; we had a terrible cancer scare, but the tests came back negative and he is healthy!!! That matters more. I feel blessed to have him.

I'm starting to look forward to our next try. We're still in the game. It will happen eventually.

Good luck to everyone else!

 

[Sandy83]

First and Cali, I'm so sorry for the BFN there is still hope not over til Official Dday!

First, so glad to hear DH got the all clear after cancer scare. I know what you mean by it meaning more to have DH fit and healthy as my DH actually had Lymphoma cancer and underwent chemo, Intense Chemo and Stem cell transplant. He is now 2 years (this month) in remission and been given the all clear. I know i want to get pregnant but to have DH here fit and health is the important thing and if we have to turn to adoption or whatever to achieve the family we long for then that is the path we have to follow. I've said many times that things happen for a reason and make us the people we are today because of it. xx

 

[MoBaby]

First Sorry you got a BFN again! Hopefully it changes before beta! SOoo glad dh is healthy!! YAY!

I am pretty sure I am going to end up with another D/C come a couple of weeks from now....SORRY TMI HERE!! Last night and this morning have been bad with the bleeding. I noticed when I do crazy exercise that the bleeding increases. Last night I ran a good amount as I have been "training" for a race that I may/may not do and I felt okay afterwards. I noticed a little bit of bleeding about an hour after, nothing bad. Then before I went to bed it had increased and there was weird tissue coming out (globs of tanish tissue). I showed DH and he said to call the dr which Im not going to do. I was like well I will just wait it out. All night I had intense pelvic pain/cramps that kept me up. I also have a slight cold and I was coughing! No sleep for me I went to the bathroom at one point and crazy bleeding/clots. I cleaned that up and went back to bed. Got up this morning to get ready for work and heavy bleeding and clots coming out and then there is this 2-3 cm glob of tanish tissue. I am assuming its products of conception left behind because it was nothing like I have seen before. I am still cramping and slight bleeding now. But the birthcontrol pills are supossed to be stoping this from happening and clearly its not working. I have 6 left. I am hoping for the best but know that I will probably end up with the D/C at the end of the month I am very upset now.

 

[Sandy83]

Mo, I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm sorry i can't advise or help in anyway. I hope this all works out for you Are you going to call the Dr? xx

 

[MoBaby]

Nah calling my dr is like calling a call center somewhere I feel like.... I'll only get the nurse who will say to finish the bcp and call when you feel like its your period and I'll never get to speak to my RE. It's rather annoying because I should be put through to the dr everytime I call, especially since I've given your clinics thousands of dollars.

 

[Sandy83]

Ah Mo, not good wish there was something i could do to help. Thinking of you! xx

 

[alicatt]

So, I did mean to test this time. I got a BFN on a FRER with FMU. I think we're out this month. I'm okay, surprisingly. I guess I was prepared after yesterday's test at the clinic.

Yesterday, we also got great news about DH's health; we had a terrible cancer scare, but the tests came back negative and he is healthy!!! That matters more. I feel blessed to have him.

I'm starting to look forward to our next try. We're still in the game. It will happen eventually.

Good luck to everyone else!

First.. sorry about your BFN, but that is great news about your DH! So what is your next step?

 

[alicatt]

Nah calling my dr is like calling a call center somewhere I feel like.... I'll only get the nurse who will say to finish the bcp and call when you feel like its your period and I'll never get to speak to my RE. It's rather annoying because I should be put through to the dr everytime I call, especially since I've given your clinics thousands of dollars.

AWW.. I'm sorry Mo, I still think you should call so that it is documented in your chart. My FS office does similar stuff, but if I press, she'll say, well let me run it by the Dr and we'll call you back. Maybe you could at least get them to do that? Then they can get the D&C done sooner than later!

 

[FirstTry]

Thanks Sandy, Mo, and Ali.

Mo: I do think you should call and tell the nurse. I'm so sorry to hear this is still going on for you.

 

[L4hope]

Welcome August! What a great response you have to stims!! Good luck with your upcoming ER.

Army, congrats on ET! The waiting is tough and somehow never seems to end.

First, so sorry about the UTI, yuck! Hopefully it's just too soon for POASing. But great perspective...so glad to hear dh has gotten a clean bill of health!

Mo I'm so sorry you are still having issues. I would call your fs and insist to talk to the doctor. If not and you have more of this, maybe you could go to the ER. You just shouldn't have to be dealing with this!

Lotus anxious to hear your results today! Fingers crossed.

Ash, one more day till beta!!

 

[MoBaby]

I guess I should call but I think I will wait....I am going skiing this weekend for the first time and I def dont want the d/c this week I dont want that trip spoiled because we need a break from all this even if its just for a couple days. I will see what monday brings as I finish my bcp sunday and I will get back late sunday night. If the bleeding worsens again like last night/this morning I will call for sure. Sigh, I'm over it all. Very frustrated!!

 

[alicatt]

I guess I should call but I think I will wait....I am going skiing this weekend for the first time and I def dont want the d/c this week I dont want that trip spoiled because we need a break from all this even if its just for a couple days. I will see what monday brings as I finish my bcp sunday and I will get back late sunday night. If the bleeding worsens again like last night/this morning I will call for sure. Sigh, I'm over it all. Very frustrated!!

I'm not a specialist by any means, but how you were describing the tissue that is coming out, it doesn't sound normal. In my 40 years on this planet, I've never had tissue come out, only blood and clots (sorry TMI). That concerns me, I just hope you aren't losing more than you should be? Again, I am not a Dr, and have little experience with D&C's or what is normal after a MC, so maybe I'm overreacting, but if I'm not, I would call the Dr, and or go to the ER. Even if it means missing your ski weekend, your health is more important in the long run.

 

[ashknowsbest]

Word to the Wise: DO NOT POAS!

Today I did something dumb..I POAS. And I got a and of coarse, I was upset. Today is the anniversary one of my best friends death. I thought maybe I would be lucky today and it would be a little sign or blessing from her. I was wrong. I know it's early-ish. But some people on here are getting BFPs on 4dp5dt. Today I am 6dp5dFET. I should have know better. So all those PUPO...don't do it. It just ruins your day.

I responded on our other thread but I just wanted to say that you're not out yet I will still be keeping my FX'd for you until your OTD.

I got another beta today. I'll be carrying my phone everywhere waiting for results tomorrow! DH left last night. This is going to be a long few months without him.

I'm looking forward to hearing the result of your beta! FX'd it's nice and high!

Lotusblossom~ huge congrats on your bfp!!!!!! I'm so happy to see you after all we all went through in December

Cali~ I'm sorry about the bfn but like the girls have said, it's still early.

Hey everyone, I hope you girls don't me joining you. I started out as an iui w/ injectables this month however I'm getting converted to Ivf due to over stimulating. This feels like I'm reliving everything I went through in December. But this time I'm prepared and very hopeful! I had an ultrasound today and I had 15 follicles between 9m and 15m. I was instructed to take 75ui of menopur tonight, lupron tomorrow morning and then return on Wednesday for another check. ER is estimated to occur Friday or Saturday, will know for sure on Wednesday

Hi August! You do respond nicely to the injectables! Best of luck for your ER! Can't wait to see how many eggs you end up getting!

Transfer went well. Embryologist wanted to transfer three but doc said not. Lining is at 7mm with three lines and we transferred 1- 8A and 1-7A. I still had 1-8B, 1-8AB and a 2C....
Cali sorry about your POAS but hey it's early there is still a chance and I am crossing my fingers for ya! Beta check is 3-22. Oh man gonna be long wait.

Yay for a good transfer! I hope this ends in a BFP for you :babydust: FX'd! Congrats on being PUPO with

My OTD is on friday. It really does get into your head. If the bloodwork turn out neg, I think it will hit me pretty hard. I'm really down today, so I can only imagine a neg beta. I do hope its still early.

Lotus- Sorry DH is going to be gone...he's gonna miss the whole first trimester fun! Please let us know your beta when it comes in!!! So happy for you!

Hey Cali. I didn't mean to POAS today, but I had to go to urgent care for this dreaded UTI and they made me POAS...BFN (though positive for UTI ). But I'm not losing hope for at least another 3 or 4 days.

Ah so sorry you got a BFN ... so lame but you're not out yet! Like I'm doing for cali ... I'm keeping my FX'd until your OTD!

And although it was a BFN when you tested, I'm so happy to hear that your DH's tests came back healthy!!!

First Sorry you got a BFN again! Hopefully it changes before beta! SOoo glad dh is healthy!! YAY!

I am pretty sure I am going to end up with another D/C come a couple of weeks from now....SORRY TMI HERE!! Last night and this morning have been bad with the bleeding. I noticed when I do crazy exercise that the bleeding increases. Last night I ran a good amount as I have been "training" for a race that I may/may not do and I felt okay afterwards. I noticed a little bit of bleeding about an hour after, nothing bad. Then before I went to bed it had increased and there was weird tissue coming out (globs of tanish tissue). I showed DH and he said to call the dr which Im not going to do. I was like well I will just wait it out. All night I had intense pelvic pain/cramps that kept me up. I also have a slight cold and I was coughing! No sleep for me I went to the bathroom at one point and crazy bleeding/clots. I cleaned that up and went back to bed. Got up this morning to get ready for work and heavy bleeding and clots coming out and then there is this 2-3 cm glob of tanish tissue. I am assuming its products of conception left behind because it was nothing like I have seen before. I am still cramping and slight bleeding now. But the birthcontrol pills are supossed to be stoping this from happening and clearly its not working. I have 6 left. I am hoping for the best but know that I will probably end up with the D/C at the end of the month I am very upset now.

I don't really know what to say as I've never had a D/C let along been pregnant but I just want to say that I'm so sorry you're going through this and I wish you could get past all of these hurdles and just have a happy healthy pregnancy Also, I wish you doctor would give you some answers instead of just shoving BCP's down your throat .. that is annoying. I say, as long as you're feeling well, go on your ski trip. You know, this IVF stuff is so depressing, sometimes you just need to say F is and go away ... I get it 100%!

Welcome August! What a great response you have to stims!! Good luck with your upcoming ER.

Army, congrats on ET! The waiting is tough and somehow never seems to end.

First, so sorry about the UTI, yuck! Hopefully it's just too soon for POASing. But great perspective...so glad to hear dh has gotten a clean bill of health!

Mo I'm so sorry you are still having issues. I would call your fs and insist to talk to the doctor. If not and you have more of this, maybe you could go to the ER. You just shouldn't have to be dealing with this!

Lotus anxious to hear your results today! Fingers crossed.

Ash, one more day till beta!!

Oh I know and I can't wait, I'm starting to get antsy! I was thinking about POAS today but it's not going to happen, I'm going to stay strong.

 

[Babiesimready]

Nah calling my dr is like calling a call center somewhere I feel like.... I'll only get the nurse who will say to finish the bcp and call when you feel like its your period and I'll never get to speak to my RE. It's rather annoying because I should be put through to the dr everytime I call, especially since I've given your clinics thousands of dollars.

Thats really annoying. We're just a number to all these REs and it sucks you have to be treated this way with no compassion whatsoever. Reason why I left my old RE...not because he wasnt good but his staff sucks. My new RE actually gave me his cell phone # and my first treatment with him with the help of God ofcourse got me pregnant. I will suggest you switch to a diff RE.

 

[ttcbaby117]

Mobaby - I had something similiar happen when my fibroids got out of hand. I was having crazy symptoms. Anyway, I find it easier to email my concerns into the nurse or direct to my dr. I get a more thourough explanation then. Maybe give it a try. Please let us know how you are feeling.

 

[MoBaby]

My fibroids flared last d/c and I had a myomectomy! Lol. No fibroids seen on last us. I feel okay; I may ask for an email address when I call next week. I did ask for the dr to call me once and he did. I do really like my dr; just wish I could better communicate with him! I am for sure asking for a better explanation! Right now he said he isn't sure what's going on!

 

[LotusBlossom]

Well, I waited all day (carried the phone to the bathroom kind of waiting) for a call re: my beta results and finally at 3:30 I called the office (they close at 4). The receptionist connected me to the nurse who was supposed to call me and I got her voicemail. It said she would return my call within 24 hours. I had already waited over 24 hours, so I called back at 3:55 since she didn't call. Out of curiosity, I asked the same receptionist if that nurse was even in the office and she said "No, she leaves at 3:30." What?!?!?! So I guess she could hear the desperation in my voice because she connected me to another nurse who said the results aren't in, but would be tomorrow morning. I'll be calling by 9 am if they don't call me first.

 

[cali_kt]

Cali- I'm sorry about your day. It is definitely early, so keep reminding yourself. I'll be hoping as hard as I can for you on Fri! Yes, haha! DH has been joking that he'll return when the bad stuff is over so he gets a happy, energetic wife again.

He's right...lucky guy! Hopefully you don't get any ms, cause having DH around makes things so much better!
I can't believe you have to wait another day for your BETA!!! That is so crappy! They know how much we want/need to know!! They better call first thing in the morning!!

 

[cali_kt]

Mo- I am so sorry you are going through all this. I do agree with the girls though... I think you need to get it checked out. I can understand wanting to get away and you definitely deserve that...but just be careful. You don't want to get an infection either.

Ash- Tomorrow's the day!!! I have some very good feelings about you!! I can't wait to see BFP come up on this thread!! You'll know by tomorrow afternoon right?

First- Nooooooo. Don't throw in the hat yet buddy! Hang on through with me. You're a day behind me.

AFM- Thanks to everyone for listening to my ranting about BFN! I really do appreciate all the support. DH took the HPTs from me tues morning. So NO MORE TESTING. All that said, I think I've come to terms with being able to accept this. I think it will make friday easier if it is a bfn. If its a BFP... I will be so surprised...it will be awesome!