Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

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I hope that there will be some ladies left to cycle with! But then again, I hope you all get your forever babies ASAP!!!

Turkey I'm going to talk to my FS about doing a cycle with CCS, and freezing all. I think that is my best option at this point. But as you all know I'll have to wait 2 months for my body to recover!
 
Ali glad you're home and resting and looking forward to the future. I absolutely agree, we are put through this process because we are strong women and will be stronger for it. I also believe that when we do get our precious rainbow babies we will appreciate every second of it because we worked so hard and wanted it so badly. I'm sure you'll have a few cycle buddies and for sure a huge cheering section rooting you on!!!
 
alicatt said:
I hope that there will be some ladies left to cycle with! But then again, I hope you all get your forever babies ASAP!!!

Turkey I'm going to talk to my FS about doing a cycle with CCS, and freezing all. I think that is my best option at this point. But as you all know I'll have to wait 2 months for my body to recover!
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I'll be here, Ali! I don't know when our next cycle will be. Waiting to hear about the grant and have to get a job to pay the rest of the fees... I hope we can start by the fall...
 
Man this is NEVER easy! Hysteroscopy showed some "residual tissue" so the doc that did it (not my go-to) said I'd need to wait another month. UUUGGGGHHHH! He said I'd need another hysteroscopy after my next period. I explained to him that I'm doing the EPP, and he tersely told me it didn't matter that they couldn't look at my uterus for what was truly going on if I was on drugs. "Wait a month...we'll look again". I immediately teared up and he told me "hey just go home and have sex...maybe you'll get pregnant!" REALLY? I get that all the time from pedestrians, but from an RE?? #%^*!!!

Anyway I cried for 10 minutes and now I'm feeling better. The waiting is just out of control, and if I do have to "wait a month", it's gonna put ER and waiting for CCS results and possibly an ET right around the very beginning of my school year....oh joy! New MALE principal to boot. That's not stressful at all. Sigh.

I had a long drive home to mull it over, and I'm going to stay positive. I'm gonna show up for my ovulation check bw tomorrow, and I'm thinking that MAYBE, just maybe my official RE will look at pics and feel differently. It also occurred to me that if we are going to do a FET with the tested embryos then maybe the state of my uterus at this point isn't all that important. Today's doc said the tissue would be gone with my next period, so if that's the case why can't I start the estrace if I've ovulated and start the stims after my next period? Right?? Anybody? I'm holding onto hope I suppose, but isn't that what all we gals do?? Cross your fingers for me girls, and if you have any insight, please let me know. xoxo
 
Turkey16 said:
Man this is NEVER easy! Hysteroscopy showed some "residual tissue" so the doc that did it (not my go-to) said I'd need to wait another month. UUUGGGGHHHH! He said I'd need another hysteroscopy after my next period. I explained to him that I'm doing the EPP, and he tersely told me it didn't matter that they couldn't look at my uterus for what was truly going on if I was on drugs. "Wait a month...we'll look again". I immediately teared up and he told me "hey just go home and have sex...maybe you'll get pregnant!" REALLY? I get that all the time from pedestrians, but from an RE?? #%^*!!!

Anyway I cried for 10 minutes and now I'm feeling better. The waiting is just out of control, and if I do have to "wait a month", it's gonna put ER and waiting for CCS results and possibly an ET right around the very beginning of my school year....oh joy! New MALE principal to boot. That's not stressful at all. Sigh.

I had a long drive home to mull it over, and I'm going to stay positive. I'm gonna show up for my ovulation check bw tomorrow, and I'm thinking that MAYBE, just maybe my official RE will look at pics and feel differently. It also occurred to me that if we are going to do a FET with the tested embryos then maybe the state of my uterus at this point isn't all that important. Today's doc said the tissue would be gone with my next period, so if that's the case why can't I start the estrace if I've ovulated and start the stims after my next period? Right?? Anybody? I'm holding onto hope I suppose, but isn't that what all we gals do?? Cross your fingers for me girls, and if you have any insight, please let me know. xoxo
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I don't see why you can't move forward and have a hysteroscopy after your next cycle. If its still not gone, then the only downside is you'd have to repeat the estrogen priming again. Estrogen is inexpensive and probably wouldn't be an issue. Plus doing a hysteroscopy closer to you transfer is fine as long as you aren't trying naturally right? You don't want to do that test when there is the chance of an egg or sperm in there! Well neither of these things will be happening. That other RE sounds like an a$$! Pardon my French! :haha:

Speak to your regular FS tell them you don't want to wait and find out what the risks are. If they are minimal then go for it! :thumbup:
 
alicatt said:
Turkey16 said:
Man this is NEVER easy! Hysteroscopy showed some "residual tissue" so the doc that did it (not my go-to) said I'd need to wait another month. UUUGGGGHHHH! He said I'd need another hysteroscopy after my next period. I explained to him that I'm doing the EPP, and he tersely told me it didn't matter that they couldn't look at my uterus for what was truly going on if I was on drugs. "Wait a month...we'll look again". I immediately teared up and he told me "hey just go home and have sex...maybe you'll get pregnant!" REALLY? I get that all the time from pedestrians, but from an RE?? #%^*!!!

Anyway I cried for 10 minutes and now I'm feeling better. The waiting is just out of control, and if I do have to "wait a month", it's gonna put ER and waiting for CCS results and possibly an ET right around the very beginning of my school year....oh joy! New MALE principal to boot. That's not stressful at all. Sigh.

I had a long drive home to mull it over, and I'm going to stay positive. I'm gonna show up for my ovulation check bw tomorrow, and I'm thinking that MAYBE, just maybe my official RE will look at pics and feel differently. It also occurred to me that if we are going to do a FET with the tested embryos then maybe the state of my uterus at this point isn't all that important. Today's doc said the tissue would be gone with my next period, so if that's the case why can't I start the estrace if I've ovulated and start the stims after my next period? Right?? Anybody? I'm holding onto hope I suppose, but isn't that what all we gals do?? Cross your fingers for me girls, and if you have any insight, please let me know. xoxo
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I don't see why you can't move forward and have a hysteroscopy after your next cycle. If its still not gone, then the only downside is you'd have to repeat the estrogen priming again. Estrogen is inexpensive and probably wouldn't be an issue. Plus doing a hysteroscopy closer to you transfer is fine as long as you aren't trying naturally right? You don't want to do that test when there is the chance of an egg or sperm in there! Well neither of these things will be happening. That other RE sounds like an a$$! Pardon my French! :haha:

Speak to your regular FS tell them you don't want to wait and find out what the risks are. If they are minimal then go for it! :thumbup:
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Thanks Ali. My go-to RE just called me after getting an email from the doc who did the hysteroscopy. Said there was residual "pregnancy tissue" there that would most likely be gone with my next period and that I don't need to come in tomorrow, but that I should "call with the onset of your next period...blah, blah, blah"...he was actually very nice. I mentioned the FET possibility with the CCS, and he said "but what if we can do the 6 day transfer??". I guess he's the boss. He said they get a lot of patients from other clinics that when they give them a hysteroscopy, they find all sorts if things that will prevent you from ever getting pregnant....so I guess they're cautious. He definitely bit when I made the FET point, but I'm guessing he doesn't want me to limit myself choice-wise. The only reason he said we might freeze after the CCS would be if we were pushed to a 7-day situation where we'd be unable to transfer. With my age I'm thinking he'll be delighted if we get some to 5-day, let alone 7!

I'm really happy he called, and I'm really frustrated that I'm back at square one, but it is what it is. I'm gonna make the best of it.
 
Sorry you have to wait a month turkey, but as you say we just have to make the best of these things :hugs:

Ali, ill be hanging around and hopefully cycling august/september time xx
 
Turkey, I must be missing a piece of the puzzle, but if they are saying wait then I'd wait. Make sure everything is perfect for your little bean.

I know you are disappointed but the bright side is that we might be cycle buddies :thumbup:

:hugs:
 
Turkey I had scar tissue, a probable septum, 2 polyps and some calcifications removed at my hysteroscopy June 10 and my transfer (natural fet) will be between July 17-20. No waiting for me. They can go cycle after hysteroscopy and I was cd10 then (cd27 now) and they said call with af.
 
MoBaby said:
Turkey I had scar tissue, a probable septum, 2 polyps and some calcifications removed at my hysteroscopy June 10 and my transfer (natural fet) will be between July 17-20. No waiting for me. They can go cycle after hysteroscopy and I was cd10 then (cd27 now) and they said call with af.
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Mo.. you had these things removed, I think Turkey is saying that her FS left the tissue to be removed naturally during her next period. So it may or may not go away on its own. I could be wrong but I think that's the reason for the delay.
 
I had 4 polyps removed on 6/7 and my transfer should be 7/13-7/15.
 
alicatt said:
MoBaby said:
Turkey I had scar tissue, a probable septum, 2 polyps and some calcifications removed at my hysteroscopy June 10 and my transfer (natural fet) will be between July 17-20. No waiting for me. They can go cycle after hysteroscopy and I was cd10 then (cd27 now) and they said call with af.
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Mo.. you had these things removed, I think Turkey is saying that her FS left the tissue to be removed naturally during her next period. So it may or may not go away on its own. I could be wrong but I think that's the reason for the delay.
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That's it exactly Ali, thanks! They're not removing anything Mo...it's just residual pregnancy tissue that will predictably be flushed out with my next period. My DH made me feel better when I cried cuz of my age issue when he pointed put that we're doing the CCS to eliminate that concern...well not eliminate, but lesson greatly. Thanks again for all the support ladies...not sure what I'd do without y'all.
 
why did the dr decide to leave it?? I would think they would want it out as its been in there for a while.
 
Well, I was at work this morning and got a call. The nurse said my embies weren't doing well and Re wanted to do a 3 day transfer today. So on my long 3 hour drive I was freaking out. Lo and behold, I still had all my embies (10), and the top 2 were quality 1 (that's the best) with 8 cells. Exactly what he wanted to see. The others are a little slower at 6 cells. The last 2 are not growing and will probably arrest in the next couple of days. The reason he wanted to do a 3 day is bc the embies are perfect so why wait...get them in there where they belong, rather than risk the chance of things going south in the next 2 days. And although he can't make a promise he thinks we should have some frosties.

So long story short, I'm PUPO with 2 perfect 8 cell embies!
 
Mells54 said:
Well, I was at work this morning and got a call. The nurse said my embies weren't doing well and Re wanted to do a 3 day transfer today. So on my long 3 hour drive I was freaking out. Lo and behold, I still had all my embies (10), and the top 2 were quality 1 (that's the best) with 8 cells. Exactly what he wanted to see. The others are a little slower at 6 cells. The last 2 are not growing and will probably arrest in the next couple of days. The reason he wanted to do a 3 day is bc the embies are perfect so why wait...get them in there where they belong, rather than risk the chance of things going south in the next 2 days. And although he can't make a promise he thinks we should have some frosties.

So long story short, I'm PUPO with 2 perfect 8 cell embies!
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WOW! What an emotional day for you! Sounds like a happy result though!!! Congrats on being PUPO!!! :wohoo: So now we wait for another 2 days to see if you have any frosties!! It sounds like you should have a few! :thumbup:
 
Ali, I'm glad things went as well as they could today. I will be around to cycle with you this fall!

Mells,congrats on being pupo!

Turkey, I hope you don't have any delays.

Hope everyone else is well,
 
Yay mells!! Pupo!! Sorry you had all that added stress but sounds like you have some good ones in ya :) fx for you and for frosties!
 
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