Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[eboni]

Hi Ladies I would like to join this to give and get support from each other during this journey. I lost my twin girls last October at 6.5 mths and will be doing my FET in March.
I will be starting bcp tomorrow to kick start things. I have two snow embies, not sure what grade and I am thinking to transfer 1 since my girls came preterm and was diagnose with IC.
Here is not hoping nor wishing but knowing we are already mothers to our 2013 perfectly and wonderfully made rainbow babies.

 

[FirstTry]

Hi Ladies I would like to join this to give and get support from each other during this journey. I lost my twin girls last October at 6.5 mths and will be doing my FET in March.
I will be starting bcp tomorrow to kick start things. I have two snow embies, not sure what grade and I am thinking to transfer 1 since my girls came preterm and was diagnose with IC.
Here is not hoping nor wishing but knowing we are already mothers to our 2013 perfectly and wonderfully made rainbow babies.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss, Eboni.

Welcome :wave: Please do join us. I've found this group to be invaluable as I've dealt with the ups and downs of the TTC process.

 

[FirstTry]

BabyD: the diarrhea is probably a little virus that will go away in the next couple days.

Mo: If your HCG was 200,000+, it could just be taking a while to get out of your system. As for the getting lighter and darker, ICs aren't the most reliable tests. That being said, it's probably worth talking to your doctor. You have to make sure your D&C was complete and they didn't miss anything.

 

[ttcbaby117]

Congrats on getting started first try...

Eboni - welcome, I am so sorry for your loss. Yes we will be mother in 2013, I'm sure of it

 

[MoBaby]

Yay for getting started first!!

I m not sure my hcg was that but i can only assume if at 23dpo it was 12305...So Im thinking its just that I doubt I have any retained tissue as I have no symptoms from that...Appt in 9 days so I think I may say something is my test is dark still..

Eboni sorry for your loss :*( We are transferring 1 again also due to my uterine abnormality and possible IC due to that.... Do you know if you will need a cerclage with the next pregnancy or not? My dr has talked about it with me as a possibility.

 

[Mells54]

Welcome Eboni! This forum is a great place to talk to others that are going though this process.

Phantom I love you new pic! What a cutie he is...

Hi to all the other ladies!!!!

 

[MoBaby]

Problem solved about if im preggo (yeah, right) or not.... I just started AF!! I was getting some cramps and I was like what in the world, why am I cramping and BAM! Hi AF! BUT thats good news because now I can do FET in March!!!!! I took a HPT at the same time and its still positive, but maybe the HCG is just low enough now that it still registers (test are 10) but not high enough to keep AF away?? IDK... I though AF was coming 3-4 days ago as I had a small amt of brown spotting and cramps.... SO Here is to March FET!!!!!!!!!! YAY!

 

[FirstTry]

Problem solved about if im preggo (yeah, right) or not.... I just started AF!! I was getting some cramps and I was like what in the world, why am I cramping and BAM! Hi AF! BUT thats good news because now I can do FET in March!!!!! I took a HPT at the same time and its still positive, but maybe the HCG is just low enough now that it still registers (test are 10) but not high enough to keep AF away?? IDK... I though AF was coming 3-4 days ago as I had a small amt of brown spotting and cramps.... SO Here is to March FET!!!!!!!!!! YAY!

Yay for March FET!!!!

 

[LotusBlossom]

Yay, Mo! I'm glad you can move forward!

 

[Sandy83]

Welcome Eboni So sorry to hear about your loss, but glad you are here with us all to support each other through this crazy process

Mo, great news on AF showing so you can do FET in march. It's not long away yay!

Mells, Any news with your cycle?

Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well and had a good weekend. Start of Feb this week and this thread is going to be really busy with all the Transfers starting yay! xx

 

[L4hope]

Eboni, so sorry for your loss. I hope you find this thread helpful and supportive as you move forward.

Mo, glad AF showed up so you can move on to FET in march!!

 

[Sandy83]

L4, how you getting on with FET? I feel like the days are going so slowly not much going on to look forward to like with a fresh cycle. xx

 

[Em260]

Eboni - welcome! I'm so sorry for your loss You will find a ton of support on this thread.

Mo - yay for AF and a March FET!!

BabyD - I hope you're feeling better today

Ann - congrats on being PUPO!!

AFM - I have an appt with my RE on Wed to discuss my upcoming cycle and he's going to explain why he doesn't recommend a transfer this cycle. I've already heard it from the nurse but it will be good to hear it from him. DH and I booked a vacation for the week of March 16th. I think it will line up okay with our March FET and if not I will hold off on the FET until April. I'm just so tired of putting my life on hold for procedures and I want to sit on a beach somewhere and relax

 

[Sandy83]

Em, dont blame you for booking a holiday and if needs be putting your FET off for a month. You both really deserve the break after what you have been through over the last couple of months. Some R&R could be the ticket and get you the well deserved xx

 

[Em260]

Em, dont blame you for booking a holiday and if needs be putting your FET off for a month. You both really deserve the break after what you have been through over the last couple of months. Some R&R could be the ticket and get you the well deserved xx

Thanks, Sandy. I think I surprised DH. We were booking the flights last night and I was counting out the days from my March period to the first ultrasound/lining check and got really frustrated and said let's just do it! In the long term waiting one more month to do a FET won't make a difference, but in the near future going on vacation will make a huge difference in my sanity. Especially since I'm doing an egg retrieval in Feb.

 

[BabyD225]

Eboni - welcome! I'm so sorry for your loss You will find a ton of support on this thread.

Mo - yay for AF and a March FET!!

BabyD - I hope you're feeling better today

Ann - congrats on being PUPO!!

AFM - I have an appt with my RE on Wed to discuss my upcoming cycle and he's going to explain why he doesn't recommend a transfer this cycle. I've already heard it from the nurse but it will be good to hear it from him. DH and I booked a vacation for the week of March 16th. I think it will line up okay with our March FET and if not I will hold off on the FET until April. I'm just so tired of putting my life on hold for procedures and I want to sit on a beach somewhere and relax

Eboni- welcome and hugs for yoU!

Mo- Finally you have an answer and can move on!! Excited for you!

Ann- How are you feeling?? Is it crazy being PUPO???! YYAYYY

Em- I'm sure you can't wait for that vacation.. hope you get to relax. April will come soon enough but it does suck waiting.

I feel great.. day 4 of stims- they only see 4 follicles on each ovary... i feel like thats not a lot.. the largest one is 10mm so far on my left.. and i feel it like i feel ovulation... other than that i feel great.. Headache finally went away!

 

[Sandy83]

Exactly, this whole process can send you crazy . Plus its probably best to let you body recover after ER xx

 

[Sandy83]

Glad you are starting to feel better BabyD. 4 Follies on each side is great considering you are only on day 4 of stims and at 10mm already is amazing. When you due to have ER? xx

 

[BabyD225]

Glad you are starting to feel better BabyD. 4 Follies on each side is great considering you are only on day 4 of stims and at 10mm already is amazing. When you due to have ER? xx

Thank you.. i was worried that it wasnt enough.. I hear girls with 20 follicles by the end. I am early though. They said my ER will be as early as Monday... they lowered my gonal f already because I was growing fast I guess.

how are you doing sandy?

 

[FirstTry]

Glad you are starting to feel better BabyD. 4 Follies on each side is great considering you are only on day 4 of stims and at 10mm already is amazing. When you due to have ER? xx

BabyD: I agree with Sandy. Four on each side sounds great this early! I've found that each doctor or clinic varies in how much they tell you. They might see more small follicles, but don't want to over promise. My doctor is very conservative when telling the number of follicles.

Best of luck!