Hi Ladies
So sorry I've been MIA for a while. I started out having terrible migraines, then I ended up with the flu, plus nothing was going on cyclewise.

Migraines are mostly gone, I think I'm over the worse of the flu, and I think AF is finally on its way! I should get AF either today or tomorrow if the lower back pain and cramping is any indication.

I have an appointment on Thursday (but I'm hoping to move it to Tuesday) to discuss my trial cycle, and what it entails, and what it will cost.
Since I've been away and some of you may not know me, I have had 2 failed IVFs, and have 4

on ice. I haven't even had a positive HPT or BETA, and I didn't want to waste anymore

so I asked my FS what he thought we should do, and he countered with a whole bunch of clotting and immune testing to see if there was any reason for my repeated implantation failure. Well it turns out that I have elevated NK cells. While these normally would be good for you, fighting cancer, viruses etc, they can be devastating on the embryo. In addition to that there is some concern over my uterine lining. It was 19mm last cycle, which is thicker than it should be.
So the plan is this: a trial cycle in February to test the uterine lining. We will prepare my lining as we normally would do for a FET, but instead of transferring my embryos, we'll do 2 biopsies that are meant to test the lining and narrow down the perfect time to transfer. Then in March we will do the real FET transfer and will do the transfer using the information we gleamed in February. In addition to that, we are going to do an IVIg transfusion to help suppress my NK cells. There may be other things that they add to the FET, like humira, lovenox, etc. I will know more when I chat with my FS next week.
Ann - I read your news, congrats

YAY!