Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[Boofle]

I just wonder when will we get our break my BFF thinks we should have our last nhs go before going private and so then I start doubting my decision I know it sounds dreadful wasting our go when so many people don't get that opportunity but I just think how bad they've been and how much extra stress this has put on me throughout the whole process

First u probably didn't know cos it's so rare
Wannabe did u ask about the method? It was vitrification which has a 90 per cent chance

 

[Sandy83]

Ah boofle, just one dilemma after another for you at the minute.

Is it not worth having a consultation with the private clinic to see if they would have done anything differently and if not then go for your last nhs cycle, would that be an option? xx

 

[everhopeful]

Welcome Spanish - IVF does seem a bit daunting to start with but once you are in the process it really isn't that bad. The emotional roller coster is not easy to deal with as you invest so much into each cycle but hopefully its all very much worth it in the end...

 

[Boofle]

Thanks sandy I guess that's the best thing to do hopefully I'll hear something from the private clinic today. I'm off work today but back in tmrw - life goes on hey

 

[everhopeful]

Boofle - its a hard decision. we had no funding as I already had a son so are now out of pocket big time.. but I have had exceptional care at the Lister and they have been nothing but amazing to me. Because budgets are not in their way they really do what is best for me I believe.

Perhaps go for your private consult and see how you feel - if they suggest different meds and protocol they are probably doing what is best for YOU and not a NHS budget if that makes any sense???

 

[Sandy83]

Boofle, hopefully work will keep your mind off everything! Let us know what the private clinic say. I'm hear all day if you just need to talk xx

 

[Boofle]

Thanks sandy that means a lot although I keep having a little cry it doesn't feel as bad as the first cycle that ended in bfn or the mc. Maybe it's because I haven't got all those extra hormones.
Anyhow is it snowing where you are? It is here!

 

[Sandy83]

Yeah it's just starting to snow! In my office its floor to ceiling glass windows and when you look out its all white xx

 

[everhopeful]

Sandy - 2 more days!! how exciting!!!

 

[Sandy83]

I know i'm starting to get excited but also googling to get success stories on FET after failed fresh cycle! xx

 

[MoBaby]

Okay so left appt... I have to wait for labs to come back. She also checked my hemoglobin b/c all the bleeding estrogen progesterone Hcg... Scan wasn't good. I have a 52 mm (5.2 cm) right ovarian cyst. Uterine lining is abnormally very thickened (15.4). Nurse is concerned about retained tissue so when my labs come back she will have re contact me for more information/ what to do. I am kinda pissed at this point b/c they tried to blow me of and I have an issue going on! Ugh. I can't do a third d/c so idk whats going to happen

 

[HappyBunnyAB]

I know i'm starting to get excited but also googling to get success stories on FET after failed fresh cycle! xx

Hi Sandy, my fresh cycle failed but I was successful on my FET. I think FET is so much easier on your body than the fresh cycle! I wish you the best on your transfer! I know you'll get your BFP!

 

[Sandy83]

Thanks Happybunny, good to hear from you. Can't believe you are 17 weeks already that's amazing you definitely give me hope with my FET cycle!

Mo so sorry to hear about the outcome of your appt. Can't believe they weren't going to give you any tests! but on a positive note at least they have found what is wrong and hopefully get it sorted very quickly for you to move on. Thinking of you xx

 

[everhopeful]

Mo I am so happy you followed your gut feeling and made them check!! Really hope that there is not any retained tissue. When do you get your results back? xx

 

[L4hope]

Mo what a mess, I'm sorry. Thank god you didn't listen to your doc! Sometimes we just know our bodies better.

Sandy you're almost there! You'll find a lot of FET success stories out there and let's hope we add to that list.

 

[BabyD225]

Good Morning All- (well it's morning here)

So today is 6dp3dt... and I had such horrible cramps all night. I feel OK now.. but it kept waking me up.. I'm hoping its implantation. I also POAS this morning as I do every morning... I used FRER and i thought i was imagining it but theres a VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY faint second line.. like almost so faint you could only see it held up to light.. Its SO early to test I know.. but I'm neurotic and need to know before my beta. Is this too early for a BFP?? And if I'm feeling implantation cramping then HCG shouldnt be in my pee yet, right?

I know the trigger left me.. i tested it out.. does FRER have evap lines ever? I'll test again tonight and tomorrow. Fingers crossed.

 

[greyhoundmom]

Hi All,

I received bad news on Monday. My HcG went down from 80 on Thursday to 50 on Monday, which my RE said indicates a chemical pregnancy. I was (and am) devastated. Trying to look forward and stay positive, but it's difficult. I'll be meeting with my RE on Friday to discuss next steps. Sucks

Sorry for not catching up on all of the posts from the last few days, hope you are all doing well.

 

[BabyD225]

Hi All,

I received bad news on Monday. My HcG went down from 80 on Thursday to 50 on Monday, which my RE said indicates a chemical pregnancy. I was (and am) devastated. Trying to look forward and stay positive, but it's difficult. I'll be meeting with my RE on Friday to discuss next steps. Sucks

Sorry for not catching up on all of the posts from the last few days, hope you are all doing well.

Greyhound-- I'm so sorry.. hugs to you.. thinking of you

 

[Edamame]

Boofle, I was asking about the method. I'm so sorry it didn't make it. I agree that a private consult and see what you think before making a decision. Is there a way to get a different doctor at your old clinic?

Mo- unbelievable. I hope they comp you whatever you need, what a bunch of crap.

Sandy, both of my sister's kids were successful FET babies after a fresh failure! (Two full ivf cycles over three years).

BabyD, I hope it is a true line!

Greyhound, I'm so sorry to hear that. Hugs, and I hope for better things for you. Hope your doc can give you some answers on Friday.

 

[everhopeful]

Hi All,

I received bad news on Monday. My HcG went down from 80 on Thursday to 50 on Monday, which my RE said indicates a chemical pregnancy. I was (and am) devastated. Trying to look forward and stay positive, but it's difficult. I'll be meeting with my RE on Friday to discuss next steps. Sucks

Sorry for not catching up on all of the posts from the last few days, hope you are all doing well.

I'm so sorry!! I've just been through that and it's really not easy!! I'm so so sorry!! Xx