Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[MoBaby]

Ann there is still time!! Em yay for working ovary!! That's a great sign!!!

 

[L4hope]

Hi ladies....just had a quick question...did anyone have an emdometrial activation done during your Ivf prep month? My Dr said it might help implantation and I just wondered if anyone e else has been told about this?

Do you mean like an endometrial biopsy or "scratch" where they take a sample of the endometrium? The thought is that the trauma to the endometrium causes it to be more receptive to implantation. If we're talking about the same thing then yes I just had it done last month for my transfer last week. Still waiting to see if it worked. Is your doc recommending it for you?

 

[BabyD225]

I go to Aveda salon and they said their products were fine when I was pg. Congrats baby d!
Love your scavenger hunt!!

Ali glad af came!! I started provera the other day for the never ending af , thick lining and cyst but when I took it to induce period they said to stop if af came. Hopefully you can call dr tomorrow.

Sandy and Babies - congrats on your transfers!

Baby - that is most definitely a positive! Start celebrating and planning that surprise for DH!! As someone who just had a scan, I can tell you that it still doesn't feel real. So embrace it now - its a wonderful thing to celebrate!!!!

Ash - the countdown is on. Hope the 3 days fly by.

Wannabee- It seriously doesn't feel real AT ALL... I've peed on about 10 sticks now of different types and they're all positive.. i don't know when I'll believe it! How are you feeling??

I feel the same way. I thought my ultrasound would do the trick but it still hasn't hit me. I keep looking at my scan picture to remind myself that it is for real. Maybe when we feel the first kick it will set in??

I'm doing ok. I've been very emotional and can go from happy to sad in a matter of minutes, but am blaming that on the hormones. Other than that, I had a few days of morning (actually mine came around dinner time) sickness and that's about it.

Enjoy the moment. Celebrate with you hubby. And be grateful that it's all happening....

Thank you! I'm surprised I saw the BFP so soon... the line on FRER was verrrrry faint from 6dp3dt on. My boobs have been sore- but that's probably the progesterone because it's been for over a week now. It's 8:45pm here and it's the second night that my sense of smell is so strong that it's making me queasy as I lay in bed. I didn't think that I could get symptoms so soon, but I guess everyone's body is different! I've had moments of emotional swings, like you, and I feel bloated like I haven't used the bathroom in a few days. When do you get your first ultrasound??

I guess we've been trying for so long that now that the reality of it set in- I know less about pregnancy than I thought!!! I even was going to go shopping today and then I realized that I don't want to waste money on clothes that aren't going to fit soon! Also- do you exercise or sex? My RE never told me if it's ok... I'm sure I'll hear at my next appt. xoxo

My boobs were instantly sore as well, and still are. I was, and still am, incredibly bloated. My FS said its because of the stimulation and the fact our ovaries expand so much and not to expect that to go away. So I literally look about 4 months pregnant. I too was shopping the other day and had to stop myself from purchasing - bought shoes instead and made my first maternity clothes purchase. My pants are no longer comfortable and I don't find the belly extenders to work well with a lot of my pants. I find myself sitting at my desk at work with my pants undone so I don't feel so uncomfortable. But this is what we've all been waiting for, so I'll take it.

I had my scan last Tuesday. At the appointment the FS asked us a bunch o questions that we hadn't even thought of or discussed. Felt very silly and figured we had better get reading. We realized we have no idea what goes on in pregnancy and better educate ourselves. Thank goodness we have another few months to prepare.

In terms of exercise, I've cut most out. I go to prenatal yoga and I walk and that's about it. Hard to do for a girl who is used to running Marathons but I just don't want to risk it.

I didn't ask about sex. I've heard both positive and negatives. Most negatives were for those who have m/c'd prior - they should hold off until after the first trimester. Otherwise I heard that the extra blood flow is good for the baby. We have engaged once, and then I freaked myself off. I think I'll now hold off until the end of the first trimester.

Love your idea of the scavenger hunt! How creative and what a moment it will be for hubby!! I just called mine into the bathroom and made him stare at the stick

Let me know how it all turns out. When is your OTD???

Morning ladies

Wondering if any of you can help starting to panic now!!!!!!! Went out sure a nice meal for valentines day with dh, obviously day before transfer everything was great had transfer yesterday afternoon no problems. Then last night came and looks like me and dh have food poisoning!!!!! TMI warning sorry but had diarrhea and vomiting all night. Will this affect my transfer and implantation starting to really freak out!!!!!!!! Any advice would be welcomed xx

Sandy- Feel better!!! Sucks to be sick.. I'm sure you're fine though! I read somewhere once that we should think of the embryo like a crumb in jelly... its not going anywhere! Hydrate! xooxo

Mobaby- Thanks.. I freaked out after Alicatt told me to be careful and cancelled my appt... I look like a skunk lol ... dark strip of hair down the middle and blonde highlights on the side! I'm too nervous to risk it and I'm kicking myself for not thinking of it sooner!! THanks Ali!

Wannabe-- I dont fit in my Jeans either! Its too early to get new clothes I feel but I'm just as bloated since ER and I have sweatpants or leggings on almost everyday! lol Those maternity pants look so comfy.. but I don't want to buy them and jinx myself. I'm going away with my inlaws in two weeks and I dont know how to avoid drinking for the weekend or what to say... We always have wine or martini's... any suggestions??????? My OTD is on tuesday... line is getting darker and darker on FRER and is now positive on those cheap mini strips and EPT..

does anyone know the HCG levels that are necessary to see positive on HPTs?

 

[everhopeful]

Baby- when I had to avoid alcohol I told everyone I was on antibiotics for a bad chest. Xx

 

[ttcbaby117]

Hi ladies....just had a quick question...did anyone have an emdometrial activation done during your Ivf prep month? My Dr said it might help implantation and I just wondered if anyone e else has been told about this?

Do you mean like an endometrial biopsy or "scratch" where they take a sample of the endometrium? The thought is that the trauma to the endometrium causes it to be more receptive to implantation. If we're talking about the same thing then yes I just had it done last month for my transfer last week. Still waiting to see if it worked. Is your doc recommending it for you?

Wel I asked her if there is anything Icould be doing prior to starting IVF and she recommended it. I am asking about it because I have to travel for IVF as it is so that means another flight over prior to starting IVF for the scratch. She says it does improve implantation rates so I am just seeing if anyone else has done and if it is worth the extra cost. Also was it painful? I am asking because if Ihave it done I will fly over that morning and then fly home that evening. If I am going to be in pain then I would prefer to just stay over night and then fly home the next day.

 

[Edamame]

BabyD- Can't wait to hear how your husband takes the news! Your scavenger hunt sounds so cute!

Sandy, I'm sure it will be fine- they are well protected in there! I hope you feel better quickly!

Welcome AnnSue! It still seems pretty early to test? I think we're about the same, I had my transfer on the 11. I'm trying not to POAS, too scared to see a bfn. And even if it is bfn I'd obsess that it is too early or the test was invalid or whatever. Just wish the beta was here already! Best of luck you see a line soon!

Em- yay for new follies! Grow grow grow!

Everyone, hope your weekend is going well!

 

[L4hope]

Hi ladies....just had a quick question...did anyone have an emdometrial activation done during your Ivf prep month? My Dr said it might help implantation and I just wondered if anyone e else has been told about this?

Do you mean like an endometrial biopsy or "scratch" where they take a sample of the endometrium? The thought is that the trauma to the endometrium causes it to be more receptive to implantation. If we're talking about the same thing then yes I just had it done last month for my transfer last week. Still waiting to see if it worked. Is your doc recommending it for you?

Wel I asked her if there is anything Icould be doing prior to starting IVF and she recommended it. I am asking about it because I have to travel for IVF as it is so that means another flight over prior to starting IVF for the scratch. She says it does improve implantation rates so I am just seeing if anyone else has done and if it is worth the extra cost. Also was it painful? I am asking because if Ihave it done I will fly over that morning and then fly home that evening. If I am going to be in pain then I would prefer to just stay over night and then fly home the next day.

Oh my that stinks you have to travel for your treatment. How the heck do you do all if the monitoring appts that come with IVF? As far as the pain goes...it hurts like a mofo for the 30 seconds while it's happening. I took 600mg ibuprofen an hour before as directed. After you might have slight cramping but you should be fine to fly back home. I had mine done at 3:30pm and then rode in a car for 4 1/2 hours to attend a viewing and drive back home. I sure hope it's worth it! But it seems to have a good bit of support for being beneficial.

 

[AnnSue]

Edamame- thank you. Yes, it is still early.... Wishing you well. May this be your BFP month.

 

[alicatt]

I go to Aveda salon and they said their products were fine when I was pg. Congrats baby d!
Love your scavenger hunt!!

Ali glad af came!! I started provera the other day for the never ending af , thick lining and cyst but when I took it to induce period they said to stop if af came. Hopefully you can call dr tomorrow.

Sandy and Babies - congrats on your transfers!

Baby - that is most definitely a positive! Start celebrating and planning that surprise for DH!! As someone who just had a scan, I can tell you that it still doesn't feel real. So embrace it now - its a wonderful thing to celebrate!!!!

Ash - the countdown is on. Hope the 3 days fly by.

Wannabee- It seriously doesn't feel real AT ALL... I've peed on about 10 sticks now of different types and they're all positive.. i don't know when I'll believe it! How are you feeling??

I feel the same way. I thought my ultrasound would do the trick but it still hasn't hit me. I keep looking at my scan picture to remind myself that it is for real. Maybe when we feel the first kick it will set in??

I'm doing ok. I've been very emotional and can go from happy to sad in a matter of minutes, but am blaming that on the hormones. Other than that, I had a few days of morning (actually mine came around dinner time) sickness and that's about it.

Enjoy the moment. Celebrate with you hubby. And be grateful that it's all happening....

Thank you! I'm surprised I saw the BFP so soon... the line on FRER was verrrrry faint from 6dp3dt on. My boobs have been sore- but that's probably the progesterone because it's been for over a week now. It's 8:45pm here and it's the second night that my sense of smell is so strong that it's making me queasy as I lay in bed. I didn't think that I could get symptoms so soon, but I guess everyone's body is different! I've had moments of emotional swings, like you, and I feel bloated like I haven't used the bathroom in a few days. When do you get your first ultrasound??

I guess we've been trying for so long that now that the reality of it set in- I know less about pregnancy than I thought!!! I even was going to go shopping today and then I realized that I don't want to waste money on clothes that aren't going to fit soon! Also- do you exercise or sex? My RE never told me if it's ok... I'm sure I'll hear at my next appt. xoxo

My boobs were instantly sore as well, and still are. I was, and still am, incredibly bloated. My FS said its because of the stimulation and the fact our ovaries expand so much and not to expect that to go away. So I literally look about 4 months pregnant. I too was shopping the other day and had to stop myself from purchasing - bought shoes instead and made my first maternity clothes purchase. My pants are no longer comfortable and I don't find the belly extenders to work well with a lot of my pants. I find myself sitting at my desk at work with my pants undone so I don't feel so uncomfortable. But this is what we've all been waiting for, so I'll take it.

I had my scan last Tuesday. At the appointment the FS asked us a bunch o questions that we hadn't even thought of or discussed. Felt very silly and figured we had better get reading. We realized we have no idea what goes on in pregnancy and better educate ourselves. Thank goodness we have another few months to prepare.

In terms of exercise, I've cut most out. I go to prenatal yoga and I walk and that's about it. Hard to do for a girl who is used to running Marathons but I just don't want to risk it.

I didn't ask about sex. I've heard both positive and negatives. Most negatives were for those who have m/c'd prior - they should hold off until after the first trimester. Otherwise I heard that the extra blood flow is good for the baby. We have engaged once, and then I freaked myself off. I think I'll now hold off until the end of the first trimester.

Love your idea of the scavenger hunt! How creative and what a moment it will be for hubby!! I just called mine into the bathroom and made him stare at the stick

Let me know how it all turns out. When is your OTD???

Morning ladies

Wondering if any of you can help starting to panic now!!!!!!! Went out sure a nice meal for valentines day with dh, obviously day before transfer everything was great had transfer yesterday afternoon no problems. Then last night came and looks like me and dh have food poisoning!!!!! TMI warning sorry but had diarrhea and vomiting all night. Will this affect my transfer and implantation starting to really freak out!!!!!!!! Any advice would be welcomed xx

Sandy- Feel better!!! Sucks to be sick.. I'm sure you're fine though! I read somewhere once that we should think of the embryo like a crumb in jelly... its not going anywhere! Hydrate! xooxo

Mobaby- Thanks.. I freaked out after Alicatt told me to be careful and cancelled my appt... I look like a skunk lol ... dark strip of hair down the middle and blonde highlights on the side! I'm too nervous to risk it and I'm kicking myself for not thinking of it sooner!! THanks Ali!

Wannabe-- I dont fit in my Jeans either! Its too early to get new clothes I feel but I'm just as bloated since ER and I have sweatpants or leggings on almost everyday! lol Those maternity pants look so comfy.. but I don't want to buy them and jinx myself. I'm going away with my inlaws in two weeks and I dont know how to avoid drinking for the weekend or what to say... We always have wine or martini's... any suggestions??????? My OTD is on tuesday... line is getting darker and darker on FRER and is now positive on those cheap mini strips and EPT..

does anyone know the HCG levels that are necessary to see positive on HPTs?

Sorry Baby, didn't mean to freak you out! Aveda salons, and possibly others use a natural base for the color and then it isn't harmful for you. So just call around to find a place that is safe. I'm probably going to get my hair done one more time normally (since my FET isn't until April) but if I get pregnant I'll be coughing up the big bucks for Aveda, luckily there is one about 5 mins from my house!

 

[alicatt]

Hi ladies....just had a quick question...did anyone have an emdometrial activation done during your Ivf prep month? My Dr said it might help implantation and I just wondered if anyone e else has been told about this?

Do you mean like an endometrial biopsy or "scratch" where they take a sample of the endometrium? The thought is that the trauma to the endometrium causes it to be more receptive to implantation. If we're talking about the same thing then yes I just had it done last month for my transfer last week. Still waiting to see if it worked. Is your doc recommending it for you?

Wel I asked her if there is anything Icould be doing prior to starting IVF and she recommended it. I am asking about it because I have to travel for IVF as it is so that means another flight over prior to starting IVF for the scratch. She says it does improve implantation rates so I am just seeing if anyone else has done and if it is worth the extra cost. Also was it painful? I am asking because if Ihave it done I will fly over that morning and then fly home that evening. If I am going to be in pain then I would prefer to just stay over night and then fly home the next day.

Hey TTCBaby, and L4hope, I am going to be having 2 endometrial biopsies right around the implantation window. Apparently there is a new test where they can look at your biopsies and figure out when best to implant on the following cycle. So between that and the scratches, I'm hoping my FET works in early April. I'm anxiously waiting to hear how things go for you both!
L4hope - did it hurt at all?

 

[WannabeeMum]

I go to Aveda salon and they said their products were fine when I was pg. Congrats baby d!
Love your scavenger hunt!!

Ali glad af came!! I started provera the other day for the never ending af , thick lining and cyst but when I took it to induce period they said to stop if af came. Hopefully you can call dr tomorrow.

Sandy and Babies - congrats on your transfers!

Baby - that is most definitely a positive! Start celebrating and planning that surprise for DH!! As someone who just had a scan, I can tell you that it still doesn't feel real. So embrace it now - its a wonderful thing to celebrate!!!!

Ash - the countdown is on. Hope the 3 days fly by.

Wannabee- It seriously doesn't feel real AT ALL... I've peed on about 10 sticks now of different types and they're all positive.. i don't know when I'll believe it! How are you feeling??

I feel the same way. I thought my ultrasound would do the trick but it still hasn't hit me. I keep looking at my scan picture to remind myself that it is for real. Maybe when we feel the first kick it will set in??

I'm doing ok. I've been very emotional and can go from happy to sad in a matter of minutes, but am blaming that on the hormones. Other than that, I had a few days of morning (actually mine came around dinner time) sickness and that's about it.

Enjoy the moment. Celebrate with you hubby. And be grateful that it's all happening....

Thank you! I'm surprised I saw the BFP so soon... the line on FRER was verrrrry faint from 6dp3dt on. My boobs have been sore- but that's probably the progesterone because it's been for over a week now. It's 8:45pm here and it's the second night that my sense of smell is so strong that it's making me queasy as I lay in bed. I didn't think that I could get symptoms so soon, but I guess everyone's body is different! I've had moments of emotional swings, like you, and I feel bloated like I haven't used the bathroom in a few days. When do you get your first ultrasound??

I guess we've been trying for so long that now that the reality of it set in- I know less about pregnancy than I thought!!! I even was going to go shopping today and then I realized that I don't want to waste money on clothes that aren't going to fit soon! Also- do you exercise or sex? My RE never told me if it's ok... I'm sure I'll hear at my next appt. xoxo

My boobs were instantly sore as well, and still are. I was, and still am, incredibly bloated. My FS said its because of the stimulation and the fact our ovaries expand so much and not to expect that to go away. So I literally look about 4 months pregnant. I too was shopping the other day and had to stop myself from purchasing - bought shoes instead and made my first maternity clothes purchase. My pants are no longer comfortable and I don't find the belly extenders to work well with a lot of my pants. I find myself sitting at my desk at work with my pants undone so I don't feel so uncomfortable. But this is what we've all been waiting for, so I'll take it.

I had my scan last Tuesday. At the appointment the FS asked us a bunch o questions that we hadn't even thought of or discussed. Felt very silly and figured we had better get reading. We realized we have no idea what goes on in pregnancy and better educate ourselves. Thank goodness we have another few months to prepare.

In terms of exercise, I've cut most out. I go to prenatal yoga and I walk and that's about it. Hard to do for a girl who is used to running Marathons but I just don't want to risk it.

I didn't ask about sex. I've heard both positive and negatives. Most negatives were for those who have m/c'd prior - they should hold off until after the first trimester. Otherwise I heard that the extra blood flow is good for the baby. We have engaged once, and then I freaked myself off. I think I'll now hold off until the end of the first trimester.

Love your idea of the scavenger hunt! How creative and what a moment it will be for hubby!! I just called mine into the bathroom and made him stare at the stick

Let me know how it all turns out. When is your OTD???

Morning ladies

Wondering if any of you can help starting to panic now!!!!!!! Went out sure a nice meal for valentines day with dh, obviously day before transfer everything was great had transfer yesterday afternoon no problems. Then last night came and looks like me and dh have food poisoning!!!!! TMI warning sorry but had diarrhea and vomiting all night. Will this affect my transfer and implantation starting to really freak out!!!!!!!! Any advice would be welcomed xx

Sandy- Feel better!!! Sucks to be sick.. I'm sure you're fine though! I read somewhere once that we should think of the embryo like a crumb in jelly... its not going anywhere! Hydrate! xooxo

Mobaby- Thanks.. I freaked out after Alicatt told me to be careful and cancelled my appt... I look like a skunk lol ... dark strip of hair down the middle and blonde highlights on the side! I'm too nervous to risk it and I'm kicking myself for not thinking of it sooner!! THanks Ali!

Wannabe-- I dont fit in my Jeans either! Its too early to get new clothes I feel but I'm just as bloated since ER and I have sweatpants or leggings on almost everyday! lol Those maternity pants look so comfy.. but I don't want to buy them and jinx myself. I'm going away with my inlaws in two weeks and I dont know how to avoid drinking for the weekend or what to say... We always have wine or martini's... any suggestions??????? My OTD is on tuesday... line is getting darker and darker on FRER and is now positive on those cheap mini strips and EPT..

does anyone know the HCG levels that are necessary to see positive on HPTs?

I felt the same way about buying maternity clothes. But now that I've heard the heart beat I've placed an order. I can't wait do comfy clothes again! I've been wearing flowy dresses to work and everyone is talking.

As for drinks, I had a similar situation. I made sure to go up and do the ordering and just had them make me a virgin version of what everyone was drinking. Went terribly wrong when someone bought me a glass of wine, but I just pretended it tastes awful and left it on the table. Good luck!!

My HCG was at 178 on 15dp5dt but I had my faint positive on an EPT on 10dp5dt. Your lines sound similar to mine so I'm sure you'll have a great beta!!

 

[L4hope]

Ali, yes it was painful during the 30 seconds or so that it was happening. Thank goodness it didn't last longer than that! But honestly after it was done it wasn't bad at all. I didn't even have any spotting and only light cramps.

 

[alicatt]

Ali, yes it was painful during the 30 seconds or so that it was happening. Thank goodness it didn't last longer than that! But honestly after it was done it wasn't bad at all. I didn't even have any spotting and only light cramps.

OK I think I can handle 30 seconds Hopefully mine will be as easy as yours. Thanks for letting me know. I figure mine will be in about 3 weeks, since I had my first full day of AF today, and they try to do them around your implantation window which I think is around day 20?

 

[AnnSue]

Good morning ladies. BFN again for me this morning. booooo!!!

 

[Sandy83]

Annsue, keeping my fx'd for you xx

 

[ashknowsbest]

l4hope - only 2 more days Are you excited?!

Annsue - so sorry for the bfn again today

AFM - I just got back from my appointment and the doctor said that everything looked great on the u/s we just have to wait for the b/w results but everything is look good and I should be starting today. I feel like ER is just around the corner and can't wait!

 

[everhopeful]

Ann - still early days!!

Ash - that's great! ER will be here soon!!

Ali- I'm doing my scratch on march 6th. Consultant told me it really wasn't that bad.. Hope he is telling me the truth!!

AFM - just plodding along. I have a lining scan this Friday and my endometrium scratch on 6th march with a hopeful ET on around 1st April.
Well, that's the rough plan.

Xx

 

[Trigg09]

Hello all, hope you don't mind me butting in. I'm about to start my 2nd round of icsi (end of march) The clinic have found a match already & I haven't had my follow up or nurse planning yet :-0 but the recipient wants to start ASAP, had my last round in dec & had chem prg. This is our last go so fingers crossed. I don't suppose any of you know what to expect in a follow up? Thanks xx

 

[Mells54]

Hi Ladies! Had my scan this morning, and things are looking good. My lining is 12 mm and I have 5 follies on each side, growing evenly. Hopefully, things keep progressing nicely.

 

[ashknowsbest]

Mells - good news