Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

Aw sandy I'm so so sorry honey - I logged on just to get ur news. I really am gutted for you both sending you a virtual hug :hugs: :hugs:
 
Bad news from re.... I have to go on freaking bcp for a month. I can't believe it!! I'm so pissed now because this delays everything. He said he wants me to do this now and if it doesn't clean me out then a d/c which he doesn't want to do now. I'm so pissed I want to freaking cry! So now im out until freakibg April! If I take the bcp starting today af in a month. The nurse said re doesn't know what is going on with my uterus. My Hcg was down to under 5 finally.
 
Sandy- I'm so sorry.. What are your plans moving forward?

So today is 5 weeks for me- they took a second beta today and did an ultrasound- but they didn't see much. She said its normal to not see anything yet and to not get discouraged because its so early- I was just hoping to see something definitive. Waiting to hear back blood results to make sure hcg is going up. Has anyone had this happen before? Today is DH and my anniversary- hoping for a high second beta!
 
Did they see the sac? That should be visible with transvaginal. But not much other than that.
 
Did they see the sac? That should be visible with transvaginal. But not much other than that.

They didn't see much- she said the lining and everything looked good. She saw a black dot but she couldn't confirm that was the sac or not so I have to wait a week to go back. She said it could be early- I'm just hoping its small but there
 
If they weren't concerned then done be, your beta was great!! I bet it was just early... A dot is good :) It's so tiny at 5 wks it's hard to see... My clini had scanned me at 5w3-4 d and said try probably wouldnt see anything... It was small but not much to look at.
 
Oh Mo that sucks!! I'm sure you are more than frustrated with this delay and ambiguity with what's going on with your body. :hugs:

BabyD it's so hard not to worry. If they weren't worried about the u/s then it's a good sign. Hopefully once you get your beta back you'll be able to relax a bit.
 
Beta came back at 824. She said she was hoping to see it above 1000... So scared and I want to break down crying. Any words of wisdom? I have to go back thursday for another sono and bloods.
 
BabyD- When I went in at 5wks there wasn't even a dot, so I'm sure it is just early! What was the doubling rate for your beta?

Mo- that seriously sucks. You must be so frustrated right now. Is there any way for you to get a second opinion?
 
I don't know where to even go for a second opinion. No other RE and my OB is always backed up..... I guess I will have to trust but something tells me there were products left behind and that's why I'm messed up... I bet I end up with d/c in a month.
 
Mo - so sorry to hear about your delay. It really sucks. On the bright side, we'll be doing our FET together! :thumbup: Have they thought about doing a biopsy to see what is going on? Would that help? Do they just not feel like AF is about to arrive? Hopefully this delay will lead to a beautiful BFP!!!

BabyD - WHAT DPO are you? I think you might be a little behind the average, but it is still doubling at a good rate I think? I guess you'll know more on your 3rd BETA. Here is hoping that it hangs on! :thumbup:
 
Sandy, hugs to you. I'm so sorry.

babyD, I don't have any words of wisdom, but I'm praying that things turn out for the best. Fx'd for you.

Mo, what a pain for you, but sometimes we have to let go and do what the docs say. I'm a control freak and this is so hard for me, so hang in there.

Ash, yeah for trigger.

AFM, 2 more days until transfer. I can't wait to find out how many embryos we are going to have. I'm especially glad for a 5 day transfer bc a 3 day would have been today and we had a blizzard! They even closed the interstate here.
 
Oh my, I'm so sorry Sandy...whats your next step? any frosties??? this infertility crap we shall defeat!

BabyD- your numbers doubled so I wouldnt be worried...just relax and know your baby is growing and will be perfect.

Ash- so excited you;re progressing nicely...drink lots of water, it'll help with the uncomfortable bloating. Cant wait to hear how many of those awesome eggs you'll get.

Mo- so sorry about the delay, hang in there...time moves faster than you think. This whole journey is based on waiting...it sucks but we're stronger.

Ann- thats a beautiful picture. Sticky vibes

L4- thats an amazing beta!!! so happy for you :hugs:

Afm I'm still waiting on the phone call, also had my blood drawn this morning. Praying and praying.
 
sandy - :hugs: I'm so sorry :hugs:

Mo - dang it, that sucks! I'm sorry you have to wait until April :hugs:

Mells - yay for 5 day transfer! I'm happy you guys didn't have to drive in the blizzard. I bet you're getting excited to get those embies back in your body!

babies - thanks and I'll be stalking the thread waiting for you results! FX'd for you!
 
Babyd just relax and when they say worry then worry. Until then enjoy the pregnancy.
 
Thanks ladies :hugs:

I've had my cry when dh came home from work. Got to wait 6 weeks til WTF appointment. No frosties so will be moving on to fresh IVF cycle #2. Going to spend some quality time with dh for a month or 2 get my body back to normal before starting again. I will not be defeated.

Will do personals tomorrow but thinking of you Mo and BabyD xx
 
Sandy: I'm so sorry. I was hoping for your BFP. :hugs:

Mo: delays seriously suck. The worst part of this is the uncertainty and the longer the wait, the longer you have to guess what the future holds.

BabyD: when my beta was disappointing, the nurse told me to be prepared either way. Now, mine was MUCH MUCH lower than yours. But I think being prepared for disappointment helped us when it came. I hope your next test is better :hugs:
 
Ash yay for triggering tonight!! Can't wait for your ER and ET!

Afm, third beta came back at 3337! Now for the scary big hurdle of my ultrasound this Friday. Still nervous and praying for this to be my forever baby.

Congratulations, L4! It sounds like we have a winner or two! I'm calling twins :baby: :baby:
 

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