WOW so much is going on!
Cali - great news on your follicles, sounds like you might have OHSS. That is exactly how I felt during my first IVF cycle. Drink plenty of gatorade and increase your protein intake. Also eat really small meals. These things will help with the bloating. My FS gave me an infusion of albumin during my ER, this is supposed to help with OHSS. You might ask your FS about it? If you don't have fluid, and its just due to huge follicles, then once they do the ER you should feel a lot better. Congrats on having so many follicles
GL with the ER!!
Mo - UGH, the hormones involved in IVF are killer. I've had a migraine for 2 weeks and have bitten off several heads at work. I feel horrible about it, and just want to bury my head in the sand. It is very difficult to handle the emotional rollercoaster we are on, so it is no wonder you are having a rough time of it. Just know you aren't alone and venting here often very helpful. Just take things day by day, and if you feel up to going out, then do so, and if you don't then don't. It may be selfish but right now you need to be. You are still healing and you need to do what is best for you to do so.
TTCBaby - thanks for asking about me and my tests! I actually got a call from my FS office about some of the tests today. The ones that were run by Quest came back and they were all perfectly normal! YAY!
All that is left is the NK cell testing that went to a specialty lab. Not sure how much longer that will take? My FS said they would call the lab to get an idea of when those results would be in. I'm going to ask for a copy of the test results, because to be honest I have no idea what I was tested for? I know it was auto-immune, clotting and chromosomal testing. What that means exactly I have no idea. It is great news that it all came back normal, but now we have even less of a reason why my last 2 IVF cycles didn't work
Maybe the NK cell testing will come back positive? If not, it will be interesting to see what my FS says in our appointment on Friday.
Everyone else..
So happy this thread is here to discuss all these crazy things!
I am in the middle of my FET cycle (medicated) and I go February 4 back to my FS and if all looks as it should my FET is scheduled for February 8! I will be putting two of my embies back.
I'm like really? You are charging me loads of money for an IVF cycle and you still feel the need to charge me for the trial transfer? UGH. Thing is that it is fairly necessary. The embryo transfer is way more complex than an IUI. They have to get the angle to your uterus correct, and they need to do it with the least amount of trauma to your cervix. If they so much as cause any trauma to your cervix or your uterus, it could send it into spasm which could cause your embryos to not implant. So today was very important. I would suggest that you request some form of sedative so that you are relaxed at the time of transfer. My FS gave me 3 valium (the nurse said that they give you up to 5 depending on your stress levels during your appointments), so that you are nice and relaxed and not tense during the transfer. That too is very important. 
yay! when is your beta? xx