Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[Boofle]

Oh girls I really hope this is it for you

 

[Bluebell bun]

Oh Baby I know how you feel my dear. I was doing pretty good, but it's getting harder as it gets closer to the moment of truth. I am hopeful as you should be too. But there's also the realistic side of me and especially with three previous failures that I start to think about if it doesn't work. The thought of a third fresh cycle is exhausting mentally, physically, emotionally, and financially. But we still have lots of hope even with no symptoms. I have only had a little cramping here and there but that can go either way. Any of it can go either
way. But I agree with you about testing early. I've done that and it's been worse cuz then I wonder is it too soon and I'm just a mess. We can do this, only a few more days. Either way we'll be here to support each other. Keep hoping for the best girl!

I know it is the thought of another fresh cycle that is soul destroying. To spend even more money with still no guarantee of anything in return is so hard. Emotionally this has been so much tougher that I would have believed. I keep reminding myself that this is further than we have ever been before with a decent blast transferred but it's really difficult. I also keep reminding myself that is ridiculously early to notice anything at all symptom wise at this stage. Fingers crossed

 

[BabyD225]

Bluebell and L4hope.. The devastation of a failure is something I can't even imagine pushing through.. emotionally, financially, physically...

We're all on the same point in our 2ww.. I've read people have gotten BFP as early as 6dp3dt and as late as 12dp3dt.. My second line is there today.. just hoping tomorrow is darker. i've had bad cramping a couple of nights ago- it actually woke me up. My boobs have been sore.. but they've been like that since the transfer so it must be progesterone. I've been having more runny CM.. dont know if thats normal- but just since yesterday- I wonder if it's because I 'scooped out' the crinone (GROSS I KNOW SORRY)

I can't deal with the anxiety of the waiting until tuesday! I want to know either way before so the news isn't shocking when they call. Hopeful for all of us! This is quite the emotional ride....

 

[WannabeeMum]

I've been away for a few days but you girls have been busy on here.

Sandy - so excited for you! I hope your transfer goes well!!!

Boofle - I'm so sorry about your FET. Sending you a big hug and hoping the next cycle at the new clinic is your time.

MO - that's ridiculous that you had to force yourself on the doctor to get tests done, but glad to hear that you got things sorted.

Grey - I can only imagine how you feel. I'm so sorry hun. Sending you hugs and positive vibes for your next cycle.

Baby - I had a lot of cramping. Was sure that meant I was getting AF and broke down in tears. But, like you, tested on about day 11 and got that faint line that kept getting darker. So I think these are all good signs for you!!! So exciting!!! Keep posting your line results - I'm pulling for you!!!

 

[Boofle]

Sandy it's the big day thinking of you hun now go get ur embies on board

 

[everhopeful]

Sandy!! Have a great day!!! Thinking of you. Xx

 

[Sandy83]

Thanks ladies, just rang and got to ring nearer noon to get the time I' ll be going in. Using this time to relax and get myself ready xx

 

[Lyghtning]

Hi ladies, hope you dont mind if I join.

I had Egg Retreival on 1st Feb and they got 25 eggs resulting in a 'freeze all' and a lovely case of OHSS.

I was a bit gutted to have to do the two month wait but happy to have 5 little frosties waiting for me.

They rang today saying they are going to do a natural cycle. Not sure what it means, and not sure if its a good thing.
Will probably have the transfer around the end of March I think depending on my cycle length. Wishing the days away

 

[everhopeful]

welcome lyghtning - I am sorry that you got OHSS!! ARe you feeling alright at the moment?

I will be doing my FET late MArch with a natural cycle too... Just means they follow your ovulation, check lining and put embies back when lining is good!! No drugs.. well thats the idea anyway. I do have to have some drugs and of course the progesterone..

Sandy - in just a few hours... how exciting...

 

[cali_kt]

Cali_kt- We are moving to VA. It took a while, but it's all straightened out now. I'm glad you have a date for your FET. My beta is the day of your FET! Mine is next Wed, and I keep saying the same thing, I'm so ready to be pregnant. It was very brief last time, but it was a wonderful feeling.

Glad you finally know where you are going to call home! I used to live in VA. I lived in No Va outside of D.C.! Love it there. It's a beautiful place. So March 5 is going to be a lucky day for us!!!!!

 

[cali_kt]

Sandy!! Good luck today!

BabyD- I don't know how you are keeping it from DH. I would totally blab my big mouth. Anymore ideas on special ways to tell him? I want to tell my parents a special way...been trying to think of those ideas.

Lyght- We both got OHSS together! How are you doing? I'm back to my old self. I'm doing my FET on March 5. Good luck with your natural cycle!

 

[Sandy83]

Well just got the phone call going in at 1:15 which is in 45 mins but bad news only one has made it through thaw to a standard good enough to implant, disappointed that both didn't make it but glad we have at least one xx

 

[MoBaby]

Sandy: good luck!! Sorry one didnt survive but one is great!!!! FX for you!

 

[Em260]

Sandy - good luck today!! I'm sorry one didn't make it but fx for your other one! You will be PUPO yay!!!

 

[Mells54]

Sandy, good luck today! All it takes is one...

 

[L4hope]

Sandy, sorry one didn't make it, but it only takes one right?! Have a good transfer!! PUPO here you come!

 

[BabyD225]

Sandy- GOOD LUCK! CAN"T WAIT FOR YOU TO BE PUPO!!!

Here's today's test.. even darker.. is this a bfp?

 

[Edamame]

Sandy! Best of luck today! Stickie thoughts!

BabyD, that is no doubt a bfp! Congrats!!

Lyght- welcome! Sorry about ohss, but FETs have a very good success rate, and your body won't be so beat up for it.

 

[everhopeful]

Sandy... all it takes is one!!!

Baby - that is most certainly a BFP - congrats!!!! Remind me, how many did you put back??

xx

 

[BabyD225]

Sandy... all it takes is one!!!

Baby - that is most certainly a BFP - congrats!!!! Remind me, how many did you put back??

xx

I put one embryo back on a three day transfer.. thanks!