Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[ttcbaby117]

Lotus - so sorry hun.....that is so horrible. I wish there was something I could say to make this better. Please let us know what the dr says.

Allicatt - well FF put in the dotted lines because I didnt submit information on my cervical fluid and I didnt use an OPK to confirm a peak so they didnt have more variables to confirm ov. I do think I oved as I did have a proper thermal shift. OH well who knows, I will just have to wait it out. Thanks for helping me with this though.

 

[alicatt]

Ash- I am so so sorry. This crap just isn't fair.

I called and a nurse told me that they have the results, but the Dr hasn't added her instructions yet. She decided to tell me the number anyway, and it was 1,140. It should have doubled twice, but it didn't even double once from the last beta, which was 665. I feel absolutely gutted right now. I sent my DH a message, but he hasn't gotten back to me. The doctor hasn't called either to tell me the next step. I am staying with my inlaws and my MIL had a planned trip so she hung out with me for a couple extra hours, but then she had to go. I don't get it. How can my luck be this bad?

Lotus.. HUGE I'm so sorry I really hope you get some calls from the FS and your DH soon. I'm thinking of you and sending your way!

 

[alicatt]

Lotus - so sorry hun.....that is so horrible. I wish there was something I could say to make this better. Please let us know what the dr says.

Allicatt - well FF put in the dotted lines because I didnt submit information on my cervical fluid and I didnt use an OPK to confirm a peak so they didnt have more variables to confirm ov. I do think I oved as I did have a proper thermal shift. OH well who knows, I will just have to wait it out. Thanks for helping me with this though.

I think that AF is seriously evil!!! That is what I think Whenever we want it to arrive, it won't and when we don't want it to arrive it does! I'm in the same boat as you. Expecting AF any time now. I took provera, stopped them on Sunday, so AF is supposed to show in 2-4 days right? This whole thing is INFURIATING! Although I do have cramping and I am irritable so I think AF is probably closing in. Maybe?

 

[MoBaby]

ali it took 3-4 days for af the first time onprovera for me and second time i justdidnt respond to it at all! i think it can take up to a week.

 

[Babiesimready]

BabyD- Did you have your follow up u/s yesterday? Swore it was tuesday! How are you doing?

Ash- Hang in there. You have been so strong. I can definitely understand being weepy! KUP!!

First- Hope you get your BFP tomorrow!

Lotus- I'm on pin and needles waiting to hear results. Just worked night shift and heading to bed. Hoping to see some beautiful Betas when I wake up!

I did.. thanks for remembering! So the heartbeat got stronger... 120bpm...and the baby grew.. now around .6cm....still measuring 5 days behind but she was surprised to see it still alive... I dont know what to think.. I have to wait a whole week now and I go back next tuesday as well for another sono. She said if the heartbeat is good by next week and it continues to grow.. she has no choice but to release me to my regular OB/GYN... so confusing, but a lot more hopeful now.. miracles can happen i guess..fingers crossed please.xo

Awesome News..I'm a sole believer in miracles and I believe your baby is here to stay and grow. Just stay positive and continue to talk to him/her but most importantly pray if you know how to....so happy for you

Lotus and Ash- Goodluck on your beta news today

 

[Mells54]

Ash, I wish I had words to comfort you.
Lotus, so sorry.

to you both.

 

[ttcbaby117]

AF is cruel you are so right! This entire LTTTC is even more cruel!!!!! The tricks that they play on you is just horrible. I think a part of me kinda believed it could be a bfp ya know....Its tough to mourn something you never had.

 

[LotusBlossom]

DH called, and wants me to remain calm and wait to see what happens. It's been 3.5 hours and no call from the Dr or anyone with instructions on what to do next. I have to say I am more than disappointed with the new Dr office at this point. I'm just going to continue meds and pretend I'm still pregnant until someone tells me otherwise. I consulted Dr Google, and of course I found tons of ladies who went on to have normal pregnancies without doubling HCGs. Who knows... One person said it could be that I had twins (when the hcg tripled) and one "vanished" so the hcg slowed down but maybe one will continue to grow. I'm grasping at straws here.

 

[alicatt]

DH called, and wants me to remain calm and wait to see what happens. It's been 3.5 hours and no call from the Dr or anyone with instructions on what to do next. I have to say I am more than disappointed with the new Dr office at this point. I'm just going to continue meds and pretend I'm still pregnant until someone tells me otherwise. I consulted Dr Google, and of course I found tons of ladies who went on to have normal pregnancies without doubling HCGs. Who knows... One person said it could be that I had twins (when the hcg tripled) and one "vanished" so the hcg slowed down but maybe one will continue to grow. I'm grasping at straws here.

Lotus, anything is possible! Just continue to take your meds until you get a call to come in and investigate. I think it could go either way? Glad your DH called! I bet he wishes he could be there for you.

 

[Babiesimready]

BabyD- Did you have your follow up u/s yesterday? Swore it was tuesday! How are you doing?

Ash- Hang in there. You have been so strong. I can definitely understand being weepy! KUP!!

First- Hope you get your BFP tomorrow!

Lotus- I'm on pin and needles waiting to hear results. Just worked night shift and heading to bed. Hoping to see some beautiful Betas when I wake up!

I did.. thanks for remembering! So the heartbeat got stronger... 120bpm...and the baby grew.. now around .6cm....still measuring 5 days behind but she was surprised to see it still alive... I dont know what to think.. I have to wait a whole week now and I go back next tuesday as well for another sono. She said if the heartbeat is good by next week and it continues to grow.. she has no choice but to release me to my regular OB/GYN... so confusing, but a lot more hopeful now.. miracles can happen i guess..fingers crossed please.xo

Awesome News..I'm a sole believer in miracles and I believe your baby is here to stay and grow. Just stay positive and continue to talk to him/her but most importantly pray if you know how to....so happy for you

Lotus and Ash- Goodluck on your beta news today

 

[Babiesimready]

Edamame - yeah it sucks but what can I do .... I'm setting up a consult with the doctor to see what he has to say but pretty sure I'm switching clinics.

Oh no!!
Please switch clinics if you have to...I switched and got my first bfp ever.
So sorry Ash

My work computer is out of wack today. Just seeing your post Lotus...dont give up hope yet, continue to take your meds and hopefully you'll hear from your Doctor soon. PMA

 

[Em260]

Ash - I'm so sorry. I think it's a really good idea to set up a consult with another clinic. I'm at NYU and I love it there. Cornell is great too. I think you already did the repeat loss panel and immune testing? What about a sperm DNA fragmentation test for your DH? I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's just so unfair

Lotus - sending you I wish there was something else I could say. I have read some stories on this forum and others where there were two embryos that implanted and then when one was lost the beta didn't double properly but the next beta was within the normal range. Fx for you. I hope your Dr. gets in touch with you soon.

 

[cali_kt]

Ash- I'm sorry. I wish I could give you a big hug. I felt like you were going to finally get your BFP. We're here for you.

Lotus- It could be the vanishing twin and like some others have said...I have read of people not exact doubling and turns out okay. And these hormones got me going...cause I want to yell at this new dr office. First they don't give you the beta yesterday and RN goes home. Then she gives you bad news and gets you no follow through. Ridiculous. I'm sorry. Keep crossing your fingers and holding onto hope.

Ali- Glad you posted the tests you recommended for Ash. Was gonna ask for those if I get a BFN. We can NOT afford another fresh cycle. So with 3 left... I need answers before I move ahead.

 

[Flowermal]

Lotus: so sorry that you are going through especially especially also not having hubby beside you.. Yea think you should continue the meds till told otherwise.. Hope the bean sticks.. Big to u

BabyD: great to hear the baby is going strong.. FXed for u

Ash: really really sorry.. Really don't know what else to say.. Great that you have a frostie so there's still hope :hugs

 

[ArmyMomma]

Ok, I have a question for you ladies. I am on 2dpt and I am having slight cramp/pain on my lower stomach. Not really painful, more of a noticed and that's all. Do you think implantation? Talked to my doc and he says definitely could be but can't guarantee. But, I just want your opinions. Figured if he isn't concerned then neither am I but I'd like to hear if any of you have had anything like this before.

 

[LotusBlossom]

Ok, I have a question for you ladies. I am on 2dpt and I am having slight cramp/pain on my lower stomach. Not really painful, more of a noticed and that's all. Do you think implantation? Talked to my doc and he says definitely could be but can't guarantee. But, I just want your opinions. Figured if he isn't concerned then neither am I but I'd like to hear if any of you have had anything like this before.

Sounds like it might be!! I would say cramping is good at this point unless it is excruciating.

 

[Mells54]

Ok, I have a question for you ladies. I am on 2dpt and I am having slight cramp/pain on my lower stomach. Not really painful, more of a noticed and that's all. Do you think implantation? Talked to my doc and he says definitely could be but can't guarantee. But, I just want your opinions. Figured if he isn't concerned then neither am I but I'd like to hear if any of you have had anything like this before.

I too had all kinds of cramps and pains, nothing big just lots of twinges. So hard to tell, but I have my fx'd for you!!!!

 

[FirstTry]

Lotus: I have heard of the vanishing twin, but don't know much about it. It makes sense. Can you get an ultrasound now? That might help answer the questions. Fingers crossed for you.

 

[LotusBlossom]

Lotus: I have heard of the vanishing twin, but don't know much about it. It makes sense. Can you get an ultrasound now? That might help answer the questions. Fingers crossed for you.

I'm not sure because my Dr never called. I'm trying to decide whether to wait until Thurs next week for the u/s or push for an earlier one with a new Dr.

 

[Sandy83]

Ash and Lotus my thoughts are with you at this hard time and sending you lots of xx