Anyone else been trying over a year?

[NatalieP]

I am getting very fed up in the 2ww now but I think I will come on next week, I just feel like I am losing hope more and more. This is our 14th cycle hubby won't go to drs until January I was thinking if nothing has happened in September I will go to drs by myself.
Sorry just feeling sorry for myself.
xx

 

[Beccaface]

Nataliieeee!
Its not over til she comes and she is NOT coming for you this month!
I have decided.
I can't even think how hard it is, this is our 3rd month trying.
Just think at the end of it, you will have your bubs
x

 

[NatalieP]

I thought that last year and I didn't I doubt it will this year either. Sorry having a feel sorry for myself today.
xx

 

[Beccaface]

You have a right to.
You have been trying for so long.
You need to put your foot down with Mark, and demand you go to the docs.
x

 

[NatalieP]

I thought I would leave it till Sept cos then its 18 months. I guess I am terrified they will find a problem.
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[Beccaface]

You could go after a year.
My cousin did!
And she found out he'd been taking steriods, silly arse.
x

 

[NatalieP]

oh well I know he has not been doing that lol.
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[Beccaface]

Go get checked out.
Tell Mark its for your peice of mind.
Say its getting you down.
x

 

[NatalieP]

It is getting me down I am just more and more fed up. I will wait and see if a/f comes next week I think it will do but will have to see.
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[Beccaface]

I would.
But AF might not show yet babykins!
Keep that smile on your face.
x

 

[NatalieP]

trying to. I know people have been ttc longer then me and I don't know how they do it.
xxx

 

[Beccaface]

It'd kill me.
It kills me and I have been trying for a very short time.
x

 

[NatalieP]

hopefully your ttc is over cos you could be preggers!!
xx

 

[africaqueen]

Dnt lose hope hun.
I ttc with my ex for over 4yrs and nothing as it turned out he was infertile and i had pcos... met my hubby, decided to ttc again and i got caught within 4mths but it ended sadly in ectopic... We are currently on our 3rd cycle of ttc again after a 3mth break following my surgery. Good things come to those that wait ;-)

xxx

 

[NatalieP]

thats what my hubby says. I feel really bad about been fed up when people who have been ttc longer are still positive.
xx

 

[lexus15]

I am getting very fed up in the 2ww now but I think I will come on next week, I just feel like I am losing hope more and more. This is our 14th cycle hubby won't go to drs until January I was thinking if nothing has happened in September I will go to drs by myself.
Sorry just feeling sorry for myself.
xx

Am feeling down as well so we can cry together

Have been trying since 2008 (properly for over 7 months). I've been seen by a gynae who gave me the all clear after having a hsg & bloods, she wanted my OH to have sperm analysis done but he's refused point blank. He thinks because we have a daughter (a teenager at that!) everything is ok with him, I pray it is!

AF WAS 2 days late but has now decided to show today.

Good luck hun, I think its a good idea if you get yourself checked out, it may spur your oh to do the same.xx