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anyone else having a bad month?

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is anyone else having a bad month? I'm not sure if it's the holiday or the fact that my 2 year anniversary of trying is coming up or that kate middleton is prego or that my Dr said I'm ovulating too late on top of hubbys issues. But it seems like it's all hitting at once and I feel out of hope, just like sad. We've been fighting a lot lately too. Does anyone know how I can get out of this rut? :/
 
I'm in a bit of a rut this month too. Maybe it's Christmas or maybe it's Princess Kate but it's an extra sucky time to be infertile
:hugs: hope you feel better soon xx
 
I have a hard day today as well! I was so hopeful this month and today I got my period! :-(
 
Yep same here. It's the holidays and the fact my last 2 IUI's haven't worked and I have almost zero hope for this one working. I want to be positive but how many times can you go through the same thing and expect the result to be any different? Been fighting with my DH too... He's fed up with me being down and being consumed with TTC and I can't blame him but I don't know how to change. Plus the other day I got an invite to a baby shower for a friend who got oopsie pregnant just before her wedding. I don't know why but that made me lose it!

Anyway... Yes you're not alone. :hugs: Thanks for letting me vent.
 
PinkPeony said:
Yep same here. It's the holidays and the fact my last 2 IUI's haven't worked and I have almost zero hope for this one working. I want to be positive but how many times can you go through the same thing and expect the result to be any different? Been fighting with my DH too... He's fed up with me being down and being consumed with TTC and I can't blame him but I don't know how to change. Plus the other day I got an invite to a baby shower for a friend who got oopsie pregnant just before her wedding. I don't know why but that made me lose it!

Anyway... Yes you're not alone. :hugs: Thanks for letting me vent.
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I was at two baby showers in the last month and both are now proud mommies! As happy as I am for them, I just want the same for myself. I visited my friend with her 3 weeks old baby on sunday and I loved it! Having a baby seems like such a beautiful experience!
How long are you trying already?
 
Im having a bad month too. Based on my temps, I ovulated really late on my first cycle on Clomid, so now Im like 6DPO and CD 32. Grr. Doesnt help that I have been sick since Thanksgiving, so almost a month. They cant figure out why I cant get rid of this cough, and why Im so short of breath all the time now. Hopefully its just an irritation causing my Asthma to flair up really bad. I have to go see a Pulmonologist (lung specialist) Friday.
On top of that, is comming up on the 1 year anniversay (jan 2) of my dog being poisoned and not making it.
And Im getting tired of being let down every month getting AF. Jan 1 brings my 19th month TTC.
I hope everyone else starts to feel better!
 
I'm also having a terrble time lately especially this month :(.

I don't know if its the fact that we got Married two months ago and it seems everyone we know were pregnant within a matter of weeks or Christmas coming up which in my family is all about the kids, being infertile at christmas has been a terrible experience for us. Or that the date that will mark 5 years is just around the corner too. Or it could just be that AF is in town right now ... Combine that and im a ball of emotions!
 
Add me to the list of having a sucky month. All the Facebook updates of people's kids being excited for Christmas, one cousin and one friend that are both going to have babies any day now, so my newsfeed has been depressing for me lately.
 
You can add me to the list too. I have been properly struggling this month. Our anniversary of TTC is just around the corner as well, all my friends seem to be on thier 2nd children, the festive season brings it home too and the whole Kate pregnancy thing

Stay strong ladies :hugs:
 
I'm glad it's not just me having a bad month. It seems like there have been an awful lot of bfp announcements, both among celebrities and among people close to me. Everytime I feel myself getting stronger, something comes along to knock me down. :(

I'm trying to be strong but it seems like I'm destined to be this poor pitiful woman.
 
Extremely sucky month here too. Just came off our second failed IVF cycle, and found out my bff is pregnant the first month she came off BCP. So now trying to grapple with failed cycle AND trying to work out how to be around my friend. Yay Christmas!
 
I'm having a bad month too! AF due between now and Friday and I'm just fed up! Not sure how to get out of my rut but I realize I get more pissed as the months go on more than anything else. Its hard. It sucks. I hate it. Sometimes life is unfair. Sometimes I wish I could hide under a blanket all day and forget about the world, thats all.
 
I am struggling this month too. We were supposed to be announcing to out families on Xmas day that we were expecting and due to miscarrying I just feel sad about this and alone without the baby we should have had. And the overwhelming thought that we will have to embark on ivf/icsi yet again.
 
I am too more so as i was told ivf is my only hope.Don't hav ethe money to do it either:(

I think the fact middleton is preggos doesn't help and other celebs...and so many people around pregant...i just dunno what it is...the shops are full of babies and kids and you can't get away from it:(

I don't know but its been the worst month.i can't take it anymore....
 
Oh Blue, I'm so sorry you're going through this, and right around Christmas too. Sending hugs.

Tess, Hear, Cali and everyone else...hang in there! January will be here soon and hopefully we'll start to feel the pressure less. This is the worst time of year to be in our situation!

:flower:
 
Can't wait for the new year! Bring on a 2013 BFP!!!!
Cycle 1 of Clomid was a bust. I ovulated late (cd 26) and had a longer cycle then normal (36 days). Called my OBGYN this morning to get it ordered again cuz he didnt write for refills) and he increased it to 100mgs. Start it again tomorrow and take it CD 3-7 again. Hopefully this cycle will be my lucky one. After just about 19 months, Im more then ready!
Really ready for this month to be OVER!
Oh, Merry Christmas Everyone!!!!!!!!!
 
and now one more celeb j.simpson onto her 2nd..christ i can;t even get one

what a shocker month!
 
longing said:
You can add me to the list too. I have been properly struggling this month. Our anniversary of TTC is just around the corner as well, all my friends seem to be on thier 2nd children, the festive season brings it home too and the whole Kate pregnancy thing

Stay strong ladies :hugs:
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LOL I knew you were british when I read your comment bc you said "properly" then looked at your profile and you are! Love your accents over there :D
 
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