phoenix333
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DF and I live together, have a baby together and are committed to each other for life anyway, but at Christmas he "officially" proposed. I feel absolutely no desire for a huge (and expensive) wedding. I would be perfectly happy with a guest list of under 10 including us, but we have compromised and decided on a maximum of 30 of the closest people. No disco,fireworks, doves etc...... just a nice ceremony and a lovely meal for everyone afterwards.
We both feel really happy with our choice, it should mean no drama, no stress and spending the day with people who won't miss all the extravagant stuff and (hopefully) will just be happy to be there and have fun. It also means we will be able to save some money and go on an amazing honeymoon afterwards![winkwink :winkwink: :winkwink:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/bigwink.gif)
However, I keep being reminded about all the people I'm not inviting and how "hurt" they will be. Even though the people we haven't invited we never usually even see/speak to - cousins, aunts, uncles and old friends who live hundreds of miles away
. I'm trying to hold my ground and stay firm but I feel like I'm being selfish and bridezilla-ish for saying I don't want them to come. I know it's our day but all the same, I don't want people to hate me forever if I don't invite them.
Has any/is anyone having a small wedding? How did you/do you deal with other peoples expectations on who you should invite? Those of you who had small weddings, are people who weren't invited still offended now?
We both feel really happy with our choice, it should mean no drama, no stress and spending the day with people who won't miss all the extravagant stuff and (hopefully) will just be happy to be there and have fun. It also means we will be able to save some money and go on an amazing honeymoon afterwards
![winkwink :winkwink: :winkwink:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/bigwink.gif)
However, I keep being reminded about all the people I'm not inviting and how "hurt" they will be. Even though the people we haven't invited we never usually even see/speak to - cousins, aunts, uncles and old friends who live hundreds of miles away
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Has any/is anyone having a small wedding? How did you/do you deal with other peoples expectations on who you should invite? Those of you who had small weddings, are people who weren't invited still offended now?