Anyone else obsessing/freaking out

[opera_lady24]

Hi ladies,

I was just wondering if anyone else is in this boat.

 

[Lenny]

yes me ive had the worst month ever!! i was so sure it was my month i felt tired and had i was achy bloated i was so sure till AF turned up yesterday i was guttered but i totally freaked out!!!

 

[opera_lady24]

I know how you feel only I wish AF would show up more often so I would at least be sure I was normal. I take comfort in the fact that almost everyone's cycles are messed up by coming off BC.

 

[Lenny]

i think my cycles have just come bak onto track its been five months since i got my implant removed. iam starting to get more stressed as this is taking longer than i was expecting i mean i new it would take awhile but iam sick of waiting now iam thinking about trying OPK now maybe it will increase my chances ey lol

 

[opera_lady24]

It depends on what works for you. Anyway...keep your chin up. I've heard of women trying for over a year and finally catching a bean!

 

[littlebird28]

Yep....we haven't been trying TOO long, but i've used OPK's the entire time with no luck. Im also super irregular and i've never been on birth control, so that's a bummer!

 

[mg80]

I am definitely freaking out because I stupidly watched the Tonight program "Too Old to be a Mum" and they were saying that you should ideally have your kids before 35, after that your eggs are so old that not even IVF might help some women! Great, not that they're scaremongering at all! Anyway it's really got me stressing, more than I already was.

I started trying last year at age 30. I'm now 31 and after 9 months of trying still not pregnant. I'm moving onto cycle 10 now and getting very worried about my biological clock and when this is going to happen for me.

Joining this forum has been fab though, makes me feel less alone in all this.

 

[opera_lady24]

You'll get there littlebird28! It might take us all forever but we'll all get there!

 

[opera_lady24]

MrsG...I want you to know that my SIL had her first at 31 and I have a friend who is 32 and she's due with her first in June. It is totally possible to have kids after 30.

 

[mize]

I am always obsessing and freaking out!!! Every waking minute of everyday i'm thinking about it. Every decision I make from what I eat, What I buy, if I will vacation, work etc. is based on the what ifs.

I also noticed just as a side note how funny we are that we can be positive for everyone else but ourselves. Why is that and how do we get there for ourselves?

 

[opera_lady24]

That's a great question mize...I don't know how we can get their ourselves. My faith is the only thing that keeps my head above water.