I know the feeling so congratulations ! Mine wasn't either, at 19 weeks I started to funnel and they wouldn't do the cerclage st that point . They said I wasn't a candidate . But when I went back 3 weeks later my cervix measured 1.9 they put it in . I've been on bedrest since 19 weeks, so I'm thankful to have made it this far too . If he comes, I feel great about it ! We have a awesome Children's Hospital about 10 minutes from my home . They have a great NICU and care for babies born before 24 weeks so I feel comfortable . Can you stay in the NICU with your baby ? Some hospitals have that option .