anyone else Unexplained?

[Maurie]

I was just wondering if there were any ladies out there with unexplained infertility?

I am reading through all of the posts seeing all the women with PCOS and Endo, or male factor infertility. I have not been diagnosed with anything and DH's SA looks great. I am starting to feel hopeless that we will ever find answers. . . .

I feel terrible about this but I wish that I were diagnosed with something this way we would know where to go from there.

I guess I am having a bad day and would like to know I'm not alone.

 

[zanDark]

you're definitely not alone everything is fine with me and OH's swimmers are awesome. I ovulate like clockwork lol and yet...here I am

I hope you get your bfp very soon

 

[mammag]

I am More than three years of TTC my 3rd, I have secondary infertility, completely unexplained, I've had every test right down to my thyroid, DH is fine as well. It's hard, that's why I love having you guys! You all keep me sane

 

[zanDark]

awww mammag! three years! I hope you get your bfp soon

 

[readyformore]

Yep, I'm unexplained infertility.

I was primary unexlained infertility. We did IUI 4 times and I had my first son.

Now we're secondary unexplained infertility. Hopefully trying IUI again.

It is hard when everything seems to be perfect, yet no pregnancy.
There's nothing to blame it on, no drug to help fix it.

I guess it wouldn't matter even if there was a reason. It still wouldn't give you a baby.

 

[Maurie]

Thank you ladies. We are trying for our first and earlier this year we were hoping to be expecting by our second anniversary which is tomorrow. When it hit me that its not going to be I crawled into bed and didn't want to get out. DH is wonderful. He somehow made me feel a little better. My next appointment isn't for another 2 weeks but I am afraid that we still wont get any answers.

 

[Lawgirl]

We're also unexplained and it sucks. Sometimes I wish we had a diagnosis, because even if it were really bad news we would at least be able to move on with our lives. As it us, we're stuck in limbo.

 

[jack79]

We've been told we're unexplained too (a high % of my oh's sperm were abnormal, but because it was just within normal limits and because he has a very high sperm count they say this shouldn't be a problem....).

Sometimes I think there must be other factors that affect TTC that doctors don't know about?????


It's very frustrating and upsetting to be labelled 'unexplained', I sympathise totally...

xx

 

[nik25]

I completely understand! My dh and I are in the same boat! almost 2 yrs of ttc our 1st! His SA was normal although high % of abnormal swimmers but OB said it shouldn't matter all it takes is 1! I've had every test possible done and...no answers. I start my first round of clomid tonight...I'm so nervous! Baby dust to all of you

 

[dizzyshell]

Ive been ttc 20 months too.Ive had all checks every test and seems im fine .I ovulate to the exact day every cycle .O/h got high sperm count.

But 5.5 year ago i got pregnant first month NTNP not really thinking and bang , so strange that i cant get pregnant again .Makes me dislike pregnant ladies and moms with babies Feel bad but so jealous .I feel so mad, upset when i see it .everwhere i go its pregnant ladies and babies .xx

 

[Sophe]

I am unexplained too... like some of the others DH has a high number of abnormal swimmers, but we were told this is not an issue.

I start my first round of clomid when AF shows up... I am one week late and got a BFN

I know how you all feel as well, and its not nice, its frustrating and lonely, and I don't even feel i have the rightto be sad as theres technically nothing wrong with me!!!

Baby dust to all on this thread x

 

[babyhope2011]

were in same boat nearly 4 years!x

 

[wishingalways]

Hi Maurie, im new to this site too but i am the same. Unexplained infertility, have been TTC for 6 and a half years and it is getting harder every day. Im 32 my DH is 31 and I have an 8 year old son from a previous relationship, which makes me feel really guilty at times because i do have a son but me and my DH dont so to me it still feels really hard. My and my DH are soul mates we are so good together and people always comment on how in love we are and how good we are together but they fall pregnant at the drop of a hat and so nothing else seems to matter.

God im rambling again, as usual.

Try to stay positive, i know its hard im always thinking of worst case scenario which i really need to stop doing.

GL and lots of baby dust. xx

 

[Apple Blossom]

Hi, same here no reason as yet for our infertilty, but I am yet to have tubes checked. My cycle is like clock work and all my test came back fine so im ov, OH has high abnormal sperm, but like alot of ladies have already said its within the normal so thats not a problem. We have been trying for 2yrs and 2 mths, I have a son of 9 from previous relationship but we so really would love to be blessed with a little one together, as I think it is the sealing of what is already such a special bond. Good luck to you all.

 

[wishingalways]

Hi apple blossom, sounds like we are in a similar circumstance, my son just turned 8 and I love him more than life itself but would so like a child with the man I chose to spend the rest of my life with.
Its really hard at times because my son still see's his dad once a week and I feel it is a constant reminder to my DH that he is not his, although he loves him like he were.

Totally of topic, how do you get the lovely pictures at the bottom of your posts.
x

 

[Apple Blossom]

Hi apple blossom, sounds like we are in a similar circumstance, my son just turned 8 and I love him more than life itself but would so like a child with the man I chose to spend the rest of my life with.
Its really hard at times because my son still see's his dad once a week and I feel it is a constant reminder to my DH that he is not his, although he loves him like he were.

Totally of topic, how do you get the lovely pictures at the bottom of your posts.
x

Hi Wishingalways, I know what you mean I idolise my little boy he the the most important person ever, and Im like the most happy person ever to be so blessed to have him in my life. I would so much love to have another with OH because I love him so much I would love to have the honour of having his child. My little boys dad walked away from him about 3yrs ago now so my OH has stepped in and he is fab with him, infact you would think he is his real dad and my OH would be happy with just my little lad if that was the way life was intended for us, which is really sweet.

I got my pics done by a lady in the signitures part, something Gem she was called, I will have a look and let you know.

 

[Apple Blossom]

Hi apple blossom, sounds like we are in a similar circumstance, my son just turned 8 and I love him more than life itself but would so like a child with the man I chose to spend the rest of my life with.
Its really hard at times because my son still see's his dad once a week and I feel it is a constant reminder to my DH that he is not his, although he loves him like he were.

Totally of topic, how do you get the lovely pictures at the bottom of your posts.
x

fairy_gems signature store she is really good and can usually do any that you request

 

[ao30]

Hi ladies... husband and I were unexplained infertility as well. We managed to conceive a couple of times, but it always ended in miscarriage. I checked out fine, and husband's SA was great. This May I had a BFP and we are now waiting for our January baby. My thoughts are all with you; miracles can happen!

A couple of things: infertility runs in my family. Not directly, but randomly- a cousin, and several of my father's first cousins have also gone through infertility. For a couple of those relatives, IVF was the only route they could take (natural born killer cells, coupled with immune problems, were the issue). Others went on to conceive miracle babies. With this pregnancy I found out that the fact that I have a negative blood type might hinder future pregnancies... it has made me wonder if it in fact might have been the reason for my miscarriages. There are so many reasons for infertility... I think that by being on here we have all taken the correct step: we want to find out what is the matter, and we won't take "no" for an answer.

 

[fisher640]

I'm not sure if I can technically be unexplained yet or not, I'm still waiting for my doctor to return my phone calls to find out what's next


I was told my HSG was all clear, He was told by my doctor that his SA was good, above average for all categories... So I don't know why we've been at this so long? If his look good and they have a clear path? I'm waiting to hear back from her whether she will order more bloodwork for me to see if I'm ovulating - I'm pretty confident I am since I checked BBT for 2+ years religiously and have an average 28day cycle for forever.

I'm so glad I moved over to LTTTC rather than the TTC forum, I was getting so frustrated over there.

 

[Apple Blossom]

I'm not sure if I can technically be unexplained yet or not, I'm still waiting for my doctor to return my phone calls to find out what's next


I was told my HSG was all clear, He was told by my doctor that his SA was good, above average for all categories... So I don't know why we've been at this so long? If his look good and they have a clear path? I'm waiting to hear back from her whether she will order more bloodwork for me to see if I'm ovulating - I'm pretty confident I am since I checked BBT for 2+ years religiously and have an average 28day cycle for forever.

I'm so glad I moved over to LTTTC rather than the TTC forum, I was getting so frustrated over there.

I just moved over from TTC part, much prefer it here although I do have a sneak peak every now and then and then I realise why I moved in the first place lol.