Anyone else?

[KRosJ]

Is anyone else just having one of those days?

We tried for almost 2 years to get pregnant. The waiting was torture each month. We finally got our BFP in November, only to lose our little bean 4 short weeks later. Delight and excitement changed to devastation and frustration in a blink of an eye.

We started trying again right away, and after hearing that you are extra fertile after an MC or chemical, I was very hopeful.

Still nothing. AF arrived yesterday and even though it hasn't been long since my MC, I'm starting to lose hope. It took so long to get pregnant the first time, and I'm so tired of waiting. All I can think about is how unfair things seem to be in this world. Unworthy and wretched people get pregnant at the drop of a hat, while good and deserving people can try their whole lives, and never be blessed with a baby.

Sorry, just needed to vent.

 

[Nitengale]

Aww, I am so sorry. It is so tough. It is healthy to vent, especially for this. It has been a little over a month for me and I got my AF too. Trying to be positive since having one cycle is actually healthy to have after a mc.

Sorry you have to suffer like this. I am with you about other people getting pregnant at the drop of a hat and for others not so much. I have three close friends who are all pregnant right now and it is so hard.

Keep up hope. You and your little angel are in my prayers.

 

[Katia-xO]

Sorry for your loss! We all feel this way but I promise it gets better, when we have our healthy babies we'll appreciate them that much more..
Fx we get them soon!

 

[ljane74]

Thinking of you. It does seem wrong how all of the bad people out their who can have tribes of children and on here are people struggling to have just one. That's what i like about this board. You can vent and vent on here and there's always someone to listen who can relate to what you're going through.
Thinking of you

 

[tuckie27]

I know how you feel. Yesterday 3 of my Facebook friends announced pregnancies! 3! And I only have 150 friends or so...I had to log off because it was too depressing after 2 m/c's in 2011 for us, plus my brother's gf is due next month and my niece is turning 1 and my first due date would've put our child right between my niece and expected nephew Hang in there, this is one of the worst things we'll ever go through in our lives. Wishing you the best.

 

[KRosJ]

Thanks everyone. Glad to know I'm not the only one that feels that way. I just had to vent. I'm sorry for each of your losses, and I hope we all get our BFPs soon!

 

[margarita1979]

KRosJ, I'm so sorry for your loss. Our stories are very similar. We've been TTC for 2 years, as well, and lost our peanut at the end of October. It's been 3 months and still nothing. The pain is unbearable. And to make matters worse my sister in-law had her baby a month ago. There's been nothing but insensitive comments from our family. It's almost as if my sister in-law is mad at us that we're not jumping for joy at the birth of her child. Lately, every day has been "one of those days." Happy thoughts for both us for 2012!