Anyone finding it hard to be happy for friends who share their prego news?

[Morganceravol]

Hi ladies, I need some encouragement!

I feel like everyday I find out a new friend is pre go. Just today found out my good friend is prego with her third and is so unhappy they were trying to prevent. I can't even fathom being unhappy, I feel so torn. I wanna be a good friend but it hurts so bad.

Thanks in advance ladies!

 

[sallyhansen76]

Oh god! I know how you feel! I wish I had some miracle answer, but to be honest Imjust as torn as you. I try and be sympathetic and understanding...but I just manage to fake a smile. Right now, I try to avoid the conversation and when it comes up I just try my best. I guess thats all we can do for now. But it won't be in vain. One day we will have a bundle of joy of our own.

 

[jessica2032]

I understand how you feel...we have three girls but have been trying for number 4 and nothings happening....My sitserinlaw who also happens to be my bff just found out shes pregnant after one drunk night with a friend and by the way she lives with me so i am around her 24/7 it sucks but i want to be a good friend but its hard at time i want to say shut up about being pregnant but i dont thats not the type of person i am...we just say well maybe we will end up prego together....