BadMamaJAMA
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I realize the title of this post is pretty much blasphemy, given where it's being posted...
But I'm just getting sick of talking about my pregnancy with my family and friends all the time. Maybe I'm just irritated in general lately.
As many of you know, I was really worried about telling my family, and I finally told them last week when I was visiting. I was also worried about telling my best friend - who lost her son after giving live birth at 24 weeks - and I told her a couple weeks ago. Everyone is actually thrilled.
Maybe the issue I'm having is that I'm surprised that they're happy. I thought they'd all be upset for one reason or another.
The end result being: I'm kind of overwhelmed with everyone and all their excitement for me. I know. I'm a jerk.
Basically, my stepmom and my best friend have both inundated me with books like What to Expect. My stepmom (also pregnant.. story for another day) wants to talk about which super-expensive prenatal vitamin I'm on or whether I plan to schedule a C-section. I'm more of a no-frills mom... Plus, she seems to have forgotten I'm a stepmother myself and wants to give me all this advice about giving kids snacks, as if you need to be a Mensa candidate to put Goldfish on a napkin.
My best friend tells me I *have* to be on Pinterest and I *need* to follow certain pages on Facebook. She doesn't work (neither does my stepmom), so she has all this time to grow fresh veggies in the backyard and grind her own meat or whatever else.. all things I *have* to do, or else... I dunno, my baby might come out a martian.
The thing is, unlike my stepmom (who, at 50, has reached advanced maternal age) and my best friend (who has had several losses) - I'm very fortunate to be incredibly healthy without all the fuss. My docs are thrilled with my weight, blood pressure, vitals, etc. The baby is perfectly on target and has the lowest risk possible for DS or Trisomy. I'm grateful for all their advice.. but I'm just overwhelmed at this point.. and don't really feel like I need it.
The other thing is, I work full-time. If I didn't, I'm sure I'd be doing nothing but pregnancy-related research, etc, all the time. My mom wants a bump picture every day, and I suppose I'd be more inclined to take one if I didn't want to go to sleep the second I got home.
I'm not going to tell anyone to back off because it's not worth it. Just wanted to vent. Anyone else feeling this way?
But I'm just getting sick of talking about my pregnancy with my family and friends all the time. Maybe I'm just irritated in general lately.
As many of you know, I was really worried about telling my family, and I finally told them last week when I was visiting. I was also worried about telling my best friend - who lost her son after giving live birth at 24 weeks - and I told her a couple weeks ago. Everyone is actually thrilled.
Maybe the issue I'm having is that I'm surprised that they're happy. I thought they'd all be upset for one reason or another.
The end result being: I'm kind of overwhelmed with everyone and all their excitement for me. I know. I'm a jerk.
Basically, my stepmom and my best friend have both inundated me with books like What to Expect. My stepmom (also pregnant.. story for another day) wants to talk about which super-expensive prenatal vitamin I'm on or whether I plan to schedule a C-section. I'm more of a no-frills mom... Plus, she seems to have forgotten I'm a stepmother myself and wants to give me all this advice about giving kids snacks, as if you need to be a Mensa candidate to put Goldfish on a napkin.
My best friend tells me I *have* to be on Pinterest and I *need* to follow certain pages on Facebook. She doesn't work (neither does my stepmom), so she has all this time to grow fresh veggies in the backyard and grind her own meat or whatever else.. all things I *have* to do, or else... I dunno, my baby might come out a martian.
The thing is, unlike my stepmom (who, at 50, has reached advanced maternal age) and my best friend (who has had several losses) - I'm very fortunate to be incredibly healthy without all the fuss. My docs are thrilled with my weight, blood pressure, vitals, etc. The baby is perfectly on target and has the lowest risk possible for DS or Trisomy. I'm grateful for all their advice.. but I'm just overwhelmed at this point.. and don't really feel like I need it.
The other thing is, I work full-time. If I didn't, I'm sure I'd be doing nothing but pregnancy-related research, etc, all the time. My mom wants a bump picture every day, and I suppose I'd be more inclined to take one if I didn't want to go to sleep the second I got home.
I'm not going to tell anyone to back off because it's not worth it. Just wanted to vent. Anyone else feeling this way?