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PixieKitty
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Need some advice ladies, as I know I can't be the only one in this situation.
My OH isn't Jack's Dad, he's adopting him once he's born, I didn't cheat on him or anything, we got together after I got pregnant.
The biological dad is a complete waste of space and I'm keeping him the hell away from my baby, I was pressing charges against him a few months back for criminal injury but instead of following through, we made a deal for him to stay out of our lives, which he agreed to, and I doubt he'll go back on that.
My problem is, what do I tell Jack? And when?
Obviously he'll find out the truth, I wouldn't want to lie to him... but is there an age when it's best to say? I know if I found out my Dad wasn't really my Dad, I wouldn't care, he'd still be my Dad regardless of blood. But not all people would react like that, and I'd hate for him to find out in his teens and then be a little s**t to Dan because they're not really blood related. Arghhh it's so confusing
Any advice? x
My OH isn't Jack's Dad, he's adopting him once he's born, I didn't cheat on him or anything, we got together after I got pregnant.
The biological dad is a complete waste of space and I'm keeping him the hell away from my baby, I was pressing charges against him a few months back for criminal injury but instead of following through, we made a deal for him to stay out of our lives, which he agreed to, and I doubt he'll go back on that.
My problem is, what do I tell Jack? And when?
Obviously he'll find out the truth, I wouldn't want to lie to him... but is there an age when it's best to say? I know if I found out my Dad wasn't really my Dad, I wouldn't care, he'd still be my Dad regardless of blood. But not all people would react like that, and I'd hate for him to find out in his teens and then be a little s**t to Dan because they're not really blood related. Arghhh it's so confusing
Any advice? x