Anyone managing to remain positive??? Me just rambling on!

[joannep]

Well I'm 14dpo today.

Cycles are between 30-32 days but on average 31 so I am due Wed 9th.

I tested on 10, 11 and 12dpo and all negative on IC.

When I MC in April tests were all there but faintish on IC, Superdrug and Frer so I know my initial tests may be faint if that is anything to go by.

I'm proud of myself that I have resisted testing for the last two days (a big achievement for me)

Although early tests were negative and in a way I think I'm out I've been really good at remaining optimistic for the last few days (which is not like me at all, especially at this stage in the cycle)

Unless AF shows tomorrow or Wednesday I am planning on testing then on the 9th which will make me 16dpo. (maybe if AF not here I should wait till Thursday, what do you think?)

I don't know whether I'm deluding myself with this PMA but it seems to have got me through the last few days. I just hope if AF shows it doesn't hit me too hard because of this.

Should I stay positive thinking that I may still have a little one inside me or change to thinking that its unlikely?

What do you all think?

Sorry for the ramble1 x

 

[joannep]

anyone?

 

[southerngal2]

Stay positive! AF hasn't arrived yet!

 

[ellieb31]

I would definitely stay positive at the moment. You might not have enough HCG to show up yet or there might not be enough dye on the IC test to show up. I would test on the day AF is due if your cycles are very regular.

I had loads of PMA last month and when AF arrived I was disappointed but no more than I would have been if I'd had a negative attitude all month so I really believe that PMA is the way to go.

 

[joannep]

I would definitely stay positive at the moment. You might not have enough HCG to show up yet or there might not be enough dye on the IC test to show up. I would test on the day AF is due if your cycles are very regular.

I had loads of PMA last month and when AF arrived I was disappointed but no more than I would have been if I'd had a negative attitude all month so I really believe that PMA is the way to go.

I think you're right hun. I've managed to stay positive for the last few days and I'm doing ok.

Thanks for the advice.

How are things with you?

 

[ellieb31]

I'm really good thanks - I'm 2 DPO and quite enjoying this part of the cycle at the moment. We did everything we could over OV and it's too soon to start symptom spotting or taking HPK's so I can just relax and hope nature does the right thing! I didn't come on BnB much during AF and up to OV so it's nice to be back in the thick of it and catching up with everyone.

(plus I have a big bar of Dairy Milk and a silly cat on my lap - what more can you ask for??)

 

[alynn6758]

Well I'm 14dpo today.

Cycles are between 30-32 days but on average 31 so I am due Wed 9th.

I tested on 10, 11 and 12dpo and all negative on IC.

When I MC in April tests were all there but faintish on IC, Superdrug and Frer so I know my initial tests may be faint if that is anything to go by.

I'm proud of myself that I have resisted testing for the last two days (a big achievement for me)

Although early tests were negative and in a way I think I'm out I've been really good at remaining optimistic for the last few days (which is not like me at all, especially at this stage in the cycle)

Unless AF shows tomorrow or Wednesday I am planning on testing then on the 9th which will make me 16dpo. (maybe if AF not here I should wait till Thursday, what do you think?)

I don't know whether I'm deluding myself with this PMA but it seems to have got me through the last few days. I just hope if AF shows it doesn't hit me too hard because of this.

Should I stay positive thinking that I may still have a little one inside me or change to thinking that its unlikely?

What do you all think?

Sorry for the ramble1 x

I would say you're still in the game, and to try to be positive, because with both my first pregnancies it took till i was late before it showed even a faint line...had to have a blood test to confirm it...cuz it didn't show up on the doctors pt...so hang in there, it might just take it a little longer to build up HCG...I'm rooting for ya!

 

[joannep]

Well I'm 14dpo today.

Cycles are between 30-32 days but on average 31 so I am due Wed 9th.

I tested on 10, 11 and 12dpo and all negative on IC.

When I MC in April tests were all there but faintish on IC, Superdrug and Frer so I know my initial tests may be faint if that is anything to go by.

I'm proud of myself that I have resisted testing for the last two days (a big achievement for me)

Although early tests were negative and in a way I think I'm out I've been really good at remaining optimistic for the last few days (which is not like me at all, especially at this stage in the cycle)

Unless AF shows tomorrow or Wednesday I am planning on testing then on the 9th which will make me 16dpo. (maybe if AF not here I should wait till Thursday, what do you think?)

I don't know whether I'm deluding myself with this PMA but it seems to have got me through the last few days. I just hope if AF shows it doesn't hit me too hard because of this.

Should I stay positive thinking that I may still have a little one inside me or change to thinking that its unlikely?

What do you all think?

Sorry for the ramble1 x

I would say you're still in the game, and to try to be positive, because with both my first pregnancies it took till i was late before it showed even a faint line...had to have a blood test to confirm it...cuz it didn't show up on the doctors pt...so hang in there, it might just take it a little longer to build up HCG...I'm rooting for ya!

Thanks hun, I really hope that's the case with me! x

 

[joannep]

I'm really good thanks - I'm 2 DPO and quite enjoying this part of the cycle at the moment. We did everything we could over OV and it's too soon to start symptom spotting or taking HPK's so I can just relax and hope nature does the right thing! I didn't come on BnB much during AF and up to OV so it's nice to be back in the thick of it and catching up with everyone.

(plus I have a big bar of Dairy Milk and a silly cat on my lap - what more can you ask for??)

I know what you mean, glad you are feeling positive. I used to be addicted to Facebook but now its BnB! Ha ha!

 

[joannep]

Well its Tuesday morning so I'm due AF today or tomorrow but more likely tomorrow on average cycle length. Not here this morning! I've resisted testing but I have to confess to peeing in a pot just in case I change my mind, Ha Ha!

A bit scared to test now... to wait or to test, wait, test, wait, test...decisions decisions! x

 

[southerngal2]

Have you tested?

 

[ellieb31]

Update please!!!!!!!

 

[joannep]

Really sorry AF came on Wednesday right on time. Gutted! Thanks for asking x

Really short though bleeding Wed and Thursday and nothing today, very strange!

 

[ellieb31]

Sorry hun xx