Anyone on their 14 month TTC with no BFP ever?

[Tanzibar83]

hey, anyone want to buddy up? I'm on cd2 and on my 2 round of clomid but I'd love to buddy up with anyone who's in the same situation. I've not really ventured out into LTTC threads until now but I feel more at home here than I do in the TTC\TWW ones where BFP's are springing up left right and centre!

xx

 

[purplesparkle]

hiya i've been ttc over 2 years and am about to start my 6th cycle of clomid i don't mind buddying up

 

[Tanzibar83]

Hey purplesparkle

oh blimey 2 years TTC? how have you had the strength and faith to keep going, I'd love to know your secret?

How come you're on clomid if you don't mind me asking, sorry for being nosy. I was put on 3 rounds cause I have irregular cycles and they found a blood blister on my left ovary. Round 1 was pretty good actually in that it drove my usual 50+ day cycles, to 37 so I'm excited to see how round 2 will do!

Have you had any good results from clomid?

 

[purplesparkle]

hiya just have3 to keep going and trying to stay positive i have my bad days too just have to remember one day i will have a baby. i'm unexplained infertility doctor said clomid would help me produce good eggs. My progesterone levels have been high which is good but still no BFP have follow up appointment in NOV might have to try iui If clomid doesn't ork this cycle

 

[a1b2c3]

I am on month 15. Waiting for af to show so I can take my first ever chlomid.

 

[Lizzy444]

I'm on month 14 of TTC #1 and think AF is on her way. We did 5 rounds of Clomid and this current cycle was Follistim and Ovidrel.

 

[Lizzy444]

I'm on month 14 of TTC #1 and think AF is on her way. We did 5 rounds of Clomid and this current cycle was Follistim and Ovidrel.

oh yeah....and I've never had a BFP.

I hate the thought that anyone else has to go through this craziness but am thankful I'm not alone.

 

[SpicyWolf]

Next month will be 2 years for us without a BFP but I'm believing this is our month. This is my sixth and final round of Clomid. Hope we all get our long-awaited bfps very soon!

 

[Maurie]

Hi ladies, I am 2 years one month no BCP and 22 months TTC.

Not one BFP

Hope everyone you all get your BFP very soon!

I am unexplained so we are looking to IUI here shortly. Not exact same situation but close.

 

[innmate]

Hey purplesparkle

 

[Tanzibar83]

purplesparkle - I hope the clomid works for you, how good was it for your cycles? were you ovulating?

a1b2c3 - hi! how many rounds of clomid are you prescribed for and how come you're taking the stuff? sorry to hear it's taking ages, it sucks doesn't it? if I knew when I was younger how hard it would be I probably would have started trying as soon as I started dating my hubby!

Lizzy444 - whats follistim and ovidrel? so were you ttc august 2010? it would be so weird if we found out we started the exact same day too!

SpicyWolf - Have you or hubby been diagnosed with anything or are you both good in that department?

Maurie - it's so hard to see your friends get pregnant and even being around pregnant people can take it's toll right?

Hey innmate - how long have you been TTC for and have you ever got any good results?

 

[Justwantababy]

Hey Tanzibar nice to see you pop up again! I'm 14 months this month too...never a bfp and only 1 ovulation (that I know of). Waiting for AF today/tomorrow then on to 3rd round of clomid.

How are you managing? I'm finding it all pretty tough actually....never thought ttc would take over so much of my life for so long. My oh has been amazing tho...I'll never forget that. I've been sticking mostly to lttc forums for a while, feel more at home here.

I'm hoping to be preggo by Christmas.....but then I said that this time last year! xx

 

[Tanzibar83]

Justwantababy - well hello again it's a small world on the forums!

Gosh it must been incredibly bad for you with just the 1 ovulation, what are you OPK's saying? Well I must admit after the first round of clomid it's given me a new burst of energy, it really has, I think it's because I can see it working (shorter cycles). I just hope I get pregnant on this round cause I'd love to keep the 3rd round for when we start to try for baby 2!

Don't get me wrong I have days when I just think me and hubby will be one of those childless couples who end up avoiding family events cause everyone around us will have kids and it really upsets me. But then I sit back and think I am still relatively young stil (28 in 2 months...ARGH!) so if it takes a while longer then it takes a while. One thing is for sure though, once baby no 1 is here there'll be no waiting around for baby number 2, I'll be popping them out!

I can't bring myself to be around friends with kids anymore, which I'm lucky to not have many friends to being with so I've become quite hermit like to be honest but I think it's best otherwise it would cause more agro and stress

the TTC forums are good but there'll always be one person on them who'll reply to a post saying "when I had a bfp the other month..." and I think well there's us 2 on completely different levels altogether so I already can't relate and neither can you to my situation - I feel quite bitchy like that sometimes but I think sometimes the girls just want to try and encourage support.

I started a thread on TTC no. 1 forum and this girl, bless her, wanted to join but I don't have the heart to tell her I think she's misinterpretted the whole point of the thread :S

I've posted the link below, I think for most of you it will be quite relevant actually you should come and say hello - it's for those who've essentially never been pregnant, never seen a second line ever. It sounds like such a specific group but I am fed up of chatting to girls who have been pregnant (even if it's for a tiny bit) and they try and relate...it just doesn't work in my eyes. Sorry!


https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-conceive-1/755348-never-had-second-line-group.html

 

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[Damita]

:wave: I am on month 14 and no hint of a ever! This is my first cycle on clomid.

 

[Lizzy444]

purplesparkle - I hope the clomid works for you, how good was it for your cycles? were you ovulating?

a1b2c3 - hi! how many rounds of clomid are you prescribed for and how come you're taking the stuff? sorry to hear it's taking ages, it sucks doesn't it? if I knew when I was younger how hard it would be I probably would have started trying as soon as I started dating my hubby!

Lizzy444 - whats follistim and ovidrel? so were you ttc august 2010? it would be so weird if we found out we started the exact same day too!

SpicyWolf - Have you or hubby been diagnosed with anything or are you both good in that department?

Maurie - it's so hard to see your friends get pregnant and even being around pregnant people can take it's toll right?

Hey innmate - how long have you been TTC for and have you ever got any good results?

Follistim and ovidrel are injections. Follistim I think is FSH, to stimulate the ovaries to produce more follicles, and ovidrel is I think HSG, and taking it induces ovulation. This was my first cycle on that stuff, and it didn't work

We were TTC in August 2010...started this journey around the middle of the month.

 

[purplesparkle]

purplesparkle - I hope the clomid works for you, how good was it for your cycles? were you ovulating?

a1b2c3 - hi! how many rounds of clomid are you prescribed for and how come you're taking the stuff? sorry to hear it's taking ages, it sucks doesn't it? if I knew when I was younger how hard it would be I probably would have started trying as soon as I started dating my hubby!

Lizzy444 - whats follistim and ovidrel? so were you ttc august 2010? it would be so weird if we found out we started the exact same day too!

SpicyWolf - Have you or hubby been diagnosed with anything or are you both good in that department?

Maurie - it's so hard to see your friends get pregnant and even being around pregnant people can take it's toll right?

Hey innmate - how long have you been TTC for and have you ever got any good results?

yes i have been ovulating

 

[SpicyWolf]

purplesparkle - I hope the clomid works for you, how good was it for your cycles? were you ovulating?

a1b2c3 - hi! how many rounds of clomid are you prescribed for and how come you're taking the stuff? sorry to hear it's taking ages, it sucks doesn't it? if I knew when I was younger how hard it would be I probably would have started trying as soon as I started dating my hubby!

Lizzy444 - whats follistim and ovidrel? so were you ttc august 2010? it would be so weird if we found out we started the exact same day too!

SpicyWolf - Have you or hubby been diagnosed with anything or are you both good in that department?

Maurie - it's so hard to see your friends get pregnant and even being around pregnant people can take it's toll right?

Hey innmate - how long have you been TTC for and have you ever got any good results?

All my tests have come back good - though I started Crinone(progesterone) last cycle for short LP/spotting and it is definitely helping. DH has super high count (500 mil) but only 2% morph so they said not to worry, but I can't help but think it probably isn't helping.

I know what you mean about not wanting to be around kids - I'm a little apprehensive about the upcoming holidays, especially with my SIL due in a few weeks and all the friends with kids who will be at our New Year's gathering. I've been trying to stay positive - it is hard, though.

 

[LizMcD]

I'm on my 13th month with no BFP.

I went for an IUI info session yesterday so we're getting started soon. Im a bit anxious about it all (would rather have tried clomid first) - im not looking forward to injecting myself eek!

We can and will get our bfps soon xx

 

[RM_Wife]

Me and my husband have been ttc for about 2 years now, although 7 of them he spent away. I am just on my first round of Clomid so we are hoping that we can get a BFP soon