anyone want a ttc#1 buddy?

[dan-o]

8dpo for me today, BFN on a cheapy test, but OPK's still have a significant line.

I'm probably way to early to test anyway, but I just wanted to make sure, lol.

My boobs more painful, temps nice an high, the odd light cramp, I have a headache & I'm very irritable.

All in all, it's a nice normal cycle (if a bit short) but I'm thinking it's a miss this month. xx

 

[DaretoDream]

Bbs still painful but less- and this am my temp was at 98.7. I know i have to wait 2 more days til i can confirm O but i'm very very hopeful that i did!

 

[dan-o]

Nice rise dare!

 

[KittyCat82]

Hello girlies, happy Fridays! So I ended up at the dentist yesterday with what I thought was an infection, to be told that she thinks I am grinding my teeth in my sleep and have poor saliva production due to...stress! I have also had a load of appointments come through from the hospital for tests for my breathing (which dr thinks is anxiety related)...anyway as a result we have come to a decision that we are going to stop ttc for a while...I know its my job which is causing it really, ( I am looking at how that stands in 6 months too) but this lark is not helping and as a result I think is not helping me concieve if you know what I mean..so we are going into that catagory of not trying but not preventing till Xmas at least and see where we are then. I think it is going to be hard tho! I am still going to go for my tests this month and have booked some acupuncture in September so I suppose its just not using cbfm and getting stressed about why am I still low, why do I have so many highs, when am I going to peak...oh god I'm peaking quick etc etc !! and see how we go..I dont want to stop coming on this thread so will keep popping in if you dont mind to see how all getting on I'm just going to try not to go on too much as I think I am a bit obsessed lol!! Good luck girlies and thanks for all your help, support and advice thus far and shall drop by soon x x x ooh ps, dan-o before I go, how long did it take to get your results back for blood tests-do they wait till you have had the 2nd lot? See-I am blatantly going to be back on here tomorrow anyway lol!! x X x

 

[dan-o]

Kitty, I got them 2 days after having the blood drawn, I called them up and asked for the specific numbers

I think NTNP is a great idea if you can afford the time hun!
I'd love to do the same, but I feel like I'm running out of time as it is, lol!

Bet you get your BFP during your NTNP time! xxx

 

[DaretoDream]

So do you think i O'd? I really hope so!

 

[mouse_chicky]

Hey girls! I hope you don't mind me dropping in. I am seriously addicted to stalking this thread. I don't know if this helps any of you who are deciding to take it easy for a while, but I got my BFP BDing anytime I wanted and never temping, although I was about to try CBFM. Lots and lots of to all of you!

 

[dan-o]

Hi mousechicky, great to see you hun!!

 

[dan-o]

So do you think i O'd? I really hope so!

Your temps may suggest ov on CD18 (IMO) but your CM doesnt, so perhaps it was a bit before that? I think the higher temp on CD12 is the one confusing me. I guess the next few temps should give you a better idea. xx

 

[dan-o]

10 dpo for me today, AF due to start making an appearance tomorrow evening or tuesday morning, ugh!

BFN on a test this morning, so I'm 95% sure I'm out this month

 

[ticktock]

hi mouse chicky, wow 13 weeks! How ae you feeling?

Af came properly today so onto another cycle again

I'm takng your advice mouse chicky, not doing anything this month just gonna go with the flow! Still taking my vits tho lol

Sorry bout the bfn dan-o, it sucks doesn't it

 

[dan-o]

Oh no sorry AF got you ticktock

Good luck with the NTNP cycle!

Yes the BFN's suck big time, this is my 14th cycle of TTC since I got my all clear to try again.
Can't believe I'm still not pregnant, there has to be something wrong with me now, it only took 6 months to get a BFP the first time

 

[DaretoDream]

to you both


Yes FF confirmed O- but it has a dotted line because the CM doesn't match the temps. I'm hoping i went before that- on cd 15- because that was when i had watery cm- and honestly the day they're showing, we didn't BD at all, because we were exhausted from the 4 days before - and the cm got pretty dry and i just assumed (what a fool) that we got it. I'm still hoping we did ok. Worst case- we learned, and we'll fix it next cycle.

I'm still hopeful that we got it though. Showing AF is due on the 20th- that's when i was planning on testing.

SO, according to FF, i'm 3 dpo today.

 

[ticktock]

ah dan-o, are you due any more tests or anything?

I'm having a terrible period, last 4/5 months been so good but this is awful feel rough and bleh. Is only 2nd day but feels like forever!

don't wanna be totally gross, but is it normal to get clots during af? I sometimes get a few, last few months i haven't really had any but today had one huge one, was quite surprised really! and grossed out lol

Have you def ov'd dare?

 

[dan-o]

ticktock - I tested again thisavo, as I felt a bit queasy in the car.
I think it's a BFN, but there was a teeny shadowy teaser. Probably nothing, but I will take my temp & POAS in the morning, just to see. AF is due tomorrow anyway & I'm cramping quite a bit.

I do get clots sometimes, I notice them more now I use softcups instead of pads/tampons.
I got some big ones last month with the early mc, and some stringy skin coloured stuff xx

 

[dan-o]

Dare, did you OPK test at all?

 

[DaretoDream]

Hey guys- no i didn't do opks- if i have to go into another cycle, i might seriously consider getting them. It's just another thing for me to have to buy you know?

More lines- AGH!

As for the O'ing- yes FF confirmed. It told me i O'd between cycle day 15-17, but on the chart it's showing cd18- and saying i'm 4 dpo. But if i O'd between 15-17 that would put me a bit further on the dpo. But like a day or two. which would bring me closer to the date i could test

CD22 today. New symptoms- AF like cramps- some of them are bad, outbreak of pimples on the face which i don't usually get unless i'm ABOUT to get my af in like two days, and now not just the underarm part of my bbs hurt, but it's moved to that AND under the bbs. They are incredibly sore.

I'm very hopeful these are all GOOD signs. As they are things i've not had after O before. Especially the bbs! Good lord ladies! They are sore!


As for the clots- yes i get them! Depends on the cycle. Sometimes i have a few, sometimes rarely any. I know everytime i see one i'm like 'ohhh that doesn't look good' but then i forget about them.

 

[dan-o]

I tested again today on a proper test, BFN.

I must have ov'd a day later than I thought, so AF will be here overnight or in the morning, I have the cramps already, had them since yesterday.

Oh well, on to cycle 15 since offcially trying again (26th overall)

 

[DaretoDream]

Sorry dan-o. I hope that you're wrong and there is still a chance. What happened to your temping? I checked out your FF and you missed a ton. I want to see those temps!

Also your smiley avatar always makes me think 'oh boy she got a bfp' and then i realize oh yeah that has nothing to do with what you're writing...

I'm still hoping for you and thinking about it ok and sending your way.

 

[dan-o]

Sorry dan-o. I hope that you're wrong and there is still a chance. What happened to your temping? I checked out your FF and you missed a ton. I want to see those temps!

Also your smiley avatar always makes me think 'oh boy she got a bfp' and then i realize oh yeah that has nothing to do with what you're writing...

I'm still hoping for you and thinking about it ok and sending your way.

I don't really bother to temp every day now, I've lost the love, lol!
I know what is pre ov and post ov range for me, so It's just the temps round the time I get a positive OPK I want to see. That way I can pinpoint ov day. I guess I've been doing this too long!

Yeah I set my avatar when I joined BNB almost 2 years ago, it reminds me to keep a PMA lol!!!!

I'm spotting now, so AF is on her sneaky way in.
I feel a lot better today as I had dreadful PMT yesterday!