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As long as you stick to your guns and stay strong they really can't force you into anything unless you and the baby are in distress. We are unsure if our son will be joining us for part of the labor too. If we go into labor naturally, it really depends on if anyone is available. I cannot imagine they could deny your son access to the labor suite if you have no other choice.
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I had my 36 week checkup today! She is measuring at 37 weeks and 2 days and currently 6lbs 15 oz. Growth scans are always estimates but she scored an 8/8 during her scan so no matter when she comes, she is a healthy and happy baby. We will be keeping a close watch on her weight and my blood pressure though. I had entertained the thought of going into labor on my own but I trust my doctor so if she says she needs to come out, that's what we will do. My first induction went well so I'm not scared.