Oh Jen, I hope you feel a little better now
No baby news here but "ding ding" round 2. Not content with the unusual barrage of texts last night, we had our first phonecalls from his family... just checking, of course. Funny thing was that the house phone rang and I bloody well knew who it would be, so didn't bother to answer it. 2 seconds later and OH's mobile rings... guess who?!
They genuinely think that a) I want them involved now when they haven't given a crap, that I'm likely to forget the last 9 months of complete disinterest now the bit they
are interested in comes close? and b) That ringing right on the girls bedtimes is the way to go?
I am sore, bored out of my tiny mind and so bloody annoyed. I'm going to have serious problems holding my temper when they do eventually roll up. I just hope that I don't go completely mental but at this stage the thought of them fawning all over the baby (when he decides to get here
) makes me very very angry.
Sorry this turned into quite a rant but I can't quite convey just how much I'm upset about it.
For those who don't know, MIL is very controlling, plays the victim when she doesn't get her own way and will not listen to a word anyone else has to say. She will deliberately ignore decisions that we make and try to pressurise us into changing them by doing whatever the hell she wants to in the first place. FIL, bless him, is soft as a brush but allows her to continue on her merry way like the bloody bulldozer that she is. SIL is a younger version of her Mother. MIL and SIL can't stand me because I wont take their crap and probably see this as the time that I will be vulnerable and they will be able to get their own way.
It is not going to happen.
And breathe. Lets try that again. <breathes> Nope still got anger sharks swimming in my brain