Lorna230713
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Hi Ladies,
I went to a breastfeeding session last night that was part of our NCT course.
I must admit that when I think of breast feeding a brick wall surrounds me and I do not know how I feel about it... I am confused.
To some it's the most natural thing you can do but for me I have a real problem with the intimacy, I think that's what it is...
All our lives we are instructed, we go to school, get jobs etc...but we are told that so much of having a baby is instinctive. I guess, I won't know what's going to happen until I'm passed my baby when it's born...
I don't want to look into why I have these issues with breastfeeding - I don't think intimate soul searching will help at this stage.
There's social pressure to breast feed, there's social pressure about doing it in public, there's personal pressure that comes from your families and within.
Any one else not know?
I went to a breastfeeding session last night that was part of our NCT course.
I must admit that when I think of breast feeding a brick wall surrounds me and I do not know how I feel about it... I am confused.
To some it's the most natural thing you can do but for me I have a real problem with the intimacy, I think that's what it is...
All our lives we are instructed, we go to school, get jobs etc...but we are told that so much of having a baby is instinctive. I guess, I won't know what's going to happen until I'm passed my baby when it's born...
I don't want to look into why I have these issues with breastfeeding - I don't think intimate soul searching will help at this stage.
There's social pressure to breast feed, there's social pressure about doing it in public, there's personal pressure that comes from your families and within.
Any one else not know?