Argh!!

[purpledahlia]

hes being horrible, i want to cry.

 

[teal]

I know it's easier said than done but try not to let him get to you xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

try not to let him get to you...i know its easier said than done tho ...my post on monday i was trying my hardest not to just burst into tears coz im so fed up with it all and worried It sucks. Have you asked him and he's been horrible or is he just being horrible? xx

 

[purpledahlia]

hes just being horrible. I said to him i dont know what he thinks he has done exactly to deserve me thinking about him and his feelings.. cos i can only judge by what hes done so far which is.. nothing.. but he said he will come on later and ill ask him then.

 

[teal]

I hope you get on ok later - if he bothers to make the effort this time xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

I hope you get an ok as well and i hope he comes online for you! x

 

[purpledahlia]

i said im not holding my breath and he said ''ok grumpy speak later'' gggrrrr

 

[teal]

It's horrible he is speaking to you like that when you're already feeling stressed.

I imagine he is trying to be funny but you really don't need it.

I feel really annoyed for you - I must be feeling hormonal! xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

"ok grumpy speak later"

I admire your strength i would have freaked out at that ....big time!! My horomones would have made me go mad! Agree with teal ..think he's trying to be funny which you dont need when your so worried and stressed out

xx

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah hes trying to make the whole thing into a joke.. like i have no reason to be annoyed.. he doesnt get it!! i said to him im not caring about u coming online anymroe i am just mad at the way your fucking speaking to me!!! and he again tried to twist it to make me out to be the bad one! well hes not online yet.. 9.15pm!....

 

[sweetlullaby]

What an arsehole. i hope he's been online by now its 23.20!! Let us know how you get on. They always twist everything to make us out to be the ones in the wrong!!Its really annoying!xx

 

[purpledahlia]

nope, he JUST litterally text me, '' not gonna be online because hes not staying at his mums, theres a reason for that ok, can i ring him '' i said no i cant ... friends gone into labour and want my phone free (for updates! ) plus i just cant be doing with his sarcastic jokes and shit, nevermind!

 

[teal]

You would think he could have said this earlier rather than leave you waiting online

I think you made the right choice not phoning him - you don't need to listen to him being horrible and sarcastic. I really hope he does the right thing and helps you out with the cot - although it's not so much helping you out as helping out his child! xx